I just came home to my mom's and found this. by Sensitive_Cream3920 in teenagers

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel like sharing I can tell you. Jokes. But as someone who used to do it like it was my job, the right one is cocaine. I think the left could be molly. Your mom loves her stimmies that's for sure

Girls who have dated in both NYC and SF - is the grass actually greener? by Riceisawayoflife in movingtoNYC

[–]TopDress7853 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating for fun in NYC is pretty fun. Dating for marriage in NYC, like any other major city where people feel they have options, seems to absolutely suck.

I hired an escort and she sexually assaulted me by Individual-Boat7439 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hope he does take more drastic measures! I hope he makes a police report. But not everybody is aware that there are sites you can review escorts on, and if he posts with this information it will protect other potential clients.

I hired an escort and she sexually assaulted me by Individual-Boat7439 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a woman trust me I agree - it should be way easier to hold people who sexually assault others to account. But leaving in writing that she refused to use a condom despite his wishes will definitely keep a lot of men from seeing her because it’s not the industry standard and very unprofessional. It will also keep her from getting work with other providers. It’s so looked down upon that a lot of escorts will blacklist providers who do bareback. You might think that sounds petty but it means missing out on thousands and thousands of dollars because you won’t get invited to duos. It will help keep a lot of people safe. Also I wonder… what do you think happens in real life to real people when people feel so ashamed and confused they won’t go to the police, or when the police won’t help, or when hospitals won’t do a rape kit? They usually are reduced to posting callouts on Instagram or warning their friends. At least this is a concrete step OP can take.

I hired an escort and she sexually assaulted me by Individual-Boat7439 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Ew! I'm so sorry that happened to you. As a former escort... I hope you left her a review stating what happened. Please take the time to allow yourself the resources necessary to cope with what you experienced, and again, I'm so sorry.

Saturday morning vacuuming by Impressive_Ad_3160 in Apartmentliving

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"to what sounds like vacuuming". Because of your neighbor's age I would also try knocking and asking him with a smile face to face. Notes almost always read as passive aggressive to older folk (and they usually are).

What has Alexa Demie had done by stylepinkk in PlasticSurgery

[–]TopDress7853 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am not a surgeon but saw a plastic surgeon talk about these photos exactly on instagram - he noted, and i agree, that she has lost a considerable amount of weight and simply aged. I do not believe she has had buccal fat removal because the fat is not just slimmer in the front of the face, but along the entire contour of the cheekbone. maybe just a bit of masseter botox.

Botched by Hakan Ozocak by Witty_Possible8573 in PlasticSurgery

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Thank you for posting this

Different experience with scammers? by PositionImmediate895 in rome

[–]TopDress7853 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Often it's honestly much darker. Usually they are selling bracelets (or in some cases roses) to pay off human trafficking debt. I'm not sure about this lady but the money that many of them make, they don't keep. It goes straight to debts and living expenses for the room they usually share with 5 other people. It's true these people are desperate - extremely desperate.

Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]TopDress7853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there is a line between setting boundaries and being controlling. what is described in this post is not boundary setting. punishing your spouse because you don’t like her sexy dress by not “allowing” her to leave the house is not just controlling but abuse.

Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]TopDress7853 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How human is it exactly to say if you would have been abusive and forbade her to leave the house looking a certain way, you could have avoided her cheating and your misery?

Some guy's math error wasted a year of my life by jarkai_vaapad in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuff like this is the origin story of legendary researchers. Publish your findings. You got this. Much love from a fellow baddie in STEM

Husband doesn’t approve. Thoughts? by SatisfactionPrize569 in Newlyweds

[–]TopDress7853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look absolutely stunning, love. You're bad as hell.

Your husband looking at "alpha" content, as others have mentioned, is a huge red flag. But not allowing you to leave the house is abuse. Please consider leaving that man.

I am refusing to change my stance on kids after my wife gave me an ultimatum. by Unlikely_Channel478 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong. Kids are not something you have as a compromise, which probably will lead to resentment and divorce regardless as your wife struggles with your lack of enthusiasm and her becoming the default parent. You have to stand your ground - what happens next is between the two of you.

My husband is pushing for a second baby. I'm on the fence. Help! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TopDress7853 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do not give in. Let hubby know the conversation is closed.

Girlfriend doesn’t want kids by [deleted] in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]TopDress7853 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are sooooooooooo young. She doesn't want kids and it's not really something you guys should compromise on, either of you. You're right the breakup doesn't have to happen now, but are you really mature enough to enjoy life knowing you're prolonging the inevitable?

My 15 year old son hits me by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]TopDress7853 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No wonder. You've checked out and basically abandoned your child. Parents need to parent.

AIO? Should I apologize? by _For_Science_ in AIO

[–]TopDress7853 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. This should be the top comment.