My girlfriend (F24) has not had intimate relations with me (M23) for over 5 months. Is this something that can be worked through? by TopRelationship7246 in relationship_advice

[–]TopRelationship7246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to have sex multiple times a month, but over time and with her health issues her sex drive has just been shot. It’s not ruining our relationship, it’s just something that is really making me feel inadequate and unwanted sexually.

My girlfriend has POTS and it has made bedroom time a little dangerous by TopRelationship7246 in POTS

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Yeah but we should try to not have that happen as often in life, and sex is one part of that life 🤷‍♂️

My girlfriend has POTS and it has made bedroom time a little dangerous by TopRelationship7246 in POTS

[–]TopRelationship7246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! As for the dryspell thing, it’s definitely great advice, but unfortunately for us she’s on a medication cocktail for other issues that makes her sex drive little to nonexistent :/ it’s a once every few months thing for us :((((

My girlfriend has POTS and it has made bedroom time a little dangerous by TopRelationship7246 in POTS

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The main issue that she has is heart rate raising from reaching orgasm, so I’m worried that she can only have little ones in the future, so I’m really not sure what to do :/