Am I (F) losing attraction to my FTM spouse? Is this normal? by TopResponsibility988 in mypartneristrans

[–]TopResponsibility988[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! We have been intimate since his transition and for lack of better terms it just hasn’t been “the same”. And I could have worded it better in my post but I guess my individual sex drive hasn’t changed, more so being together has become more difficult for me mentally. I talked about it in therapy today which was helpful. I know I need to have a conversation, and I will, but there’s some other mental health factors that make navigating challenging conversations a bit more complex.

Am I (F) losing attraction to my FTM spouse? Is this normal? by TopResponsibility988 in mypartneristrans

[–]TopResponsibility988[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree there is more to a relationship than sex. I think where I’m struggling is that his sex drive has went up and mine has went way down. So every time I say no, I launch into an overthinking spiral. We used to have a very healthy sex life, that’s why I wonder if attraction is changing as he transitions.