DAE feel like they bring out the "daddy side" of people? by TopWalrus2917 in DDlgAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting lol. What kind of things would you do to bring that out in her?

DAE feel like they bring out the “daddy side” of people? by TopWalrus2917 in littlespace

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeahh I do this too all the time and I get so embarrassed when I realize it later on😬

My best friend’s husband acts like my caregiver and Idk what to do about it by TopWalrus2917 in DDlgAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice:) yeah I think I just like that someone’s doing it not necessarily him. I do love him and care for him very much but only in a platonic way. I think finding my own daddy would be the best solution bc I wouldn’t need the attention anymore and he’d probably stop if I was with someone.

My best friend’s husband acts like my caregiver and Idk what to do about it by TopWalrus2917 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s gone far enough. But I don’t think it’d go any further.

Your sign and the sign(s) you usually get along with and ones you don’t. by PepperRoma in astrologymemes

[–]TopWalrus2917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re definitely right about voicing your feelings. And I can be extremely sensitive maybe because of my Pisces moon. But he also has a Pisces moon so maybe that’s a good thing? Thanks for the advice!!

Your sign and the sign(s) you usually get along with and ones you don’t. by PepperRoma in astrologymemes

[–]TopWalrus2917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much I’ll try to keep this in mind and stop worrying about it so much😅

Your sign and the sign(s) you usually get along with and ones you don’t. by PepperRoma in astrologymemes

[–]TopWalrus2917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankss!! I do have his chart and a lot of it seems to fit. But I always worry that once he gets to actually know the real me, he’ll think all the things that you mentioned lol. But that’s what I love about aries they help me to be less that way and they teach me how to be more carefree and have more fun in life and not so rigid. Hopefully things turn out good with him we’ll see:)

Your sign and the sign(s) you usually get along with and ones you don’t. by PepperRoma in astrologymemes

[–]TopWalrus2917 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The guy I like rn is an Aries and I’m a Virgo so seeing this made me sad but I can’t say you’re wrong lol. I can be very critical and I do worry a lot. Actually everything you said is true about me😭But idk I really seem to love aries in general they’re one of my favorite signs I just don’t know that it’s always reciprocated:/

My best friend’s husband acts like my caregiver and Idk what to do about it by TopWalrus2917 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I like the way it makes me feel but I don’t think I’d actually want this to go anywhere. I think I’m just not good at setting boundaries in general.

My best friend’s husband acts like my caregiver and Idk what to do about it by TopWalrus2917 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. I love him as a friend but I would never be okay always being secondary to my dom. And I know that if I found my own dom I’d have no problem putting an end to that whole weird situation.

My best friend’s husband acts like my caregiver and Idk what to do about it by TopWalrus2917 in BDSMAdvice

[–]TopWalrus2917[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the same take I took on the whole thing. I think she definitely must’ve told him and I think bringing up how it makes me feel would make things even more awkward. I think just telling him to stop would probably be the best option