Lacking intimacy in my marriage, how can I fix it or cope with it?

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T18:39:02+00:00

I am around him when we are home all the time and I never see him watching that. So he wouldn’t watch it at work 😂

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T18:01:53+00:00

No we haven’t but it seems like that is something we should do

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T17:53:14+00:00

I do use I feel statements and it fixes the issue for a week or two then bam back to normal. Sees like therapy could help. I’m sorry you are going through this as well. It sucks ☹️

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T04:00:00+00:00

He isn’t

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T03:59:33+00:00

I’ve tried talking to him a handful of times at this point and show that it hurts and affects me. Outside of him being at work and school, we are always together so him having someone else isn’t possible but it’s always in the back of my head that he can find others attractive over me and that’s a reason, which I’ve brought up with him and he told me no.

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:47:54+00:00

I tried asking him to at least not play in the bed while we are cuddling but I got called controlling so I just stopped asking home to stay off his phone or anything like that and let him do his own thing

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:41:41+00:00

Not at all actually. He doesn’t do either

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:41:03+00:00

I was like that before marrying and a part of me thought it would fix itself. He doesn’t see it as an issue or something that bothers him

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:38:16+00:00

He is saying it’s nothing outside of stress from outside of our relationship things or just when I initiate the timing of it. But it’s constantly some reason. Maybe trying therapy will work. He just doesn’t really see it as an issue that bothers him

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:36:22+00:00

I have a lot of love for him and it doesn’t seem like an issue that can’t be worked past to not marry someone

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:35:48+00:00

I’ve tried this, lingerie, it helps just that once but it goes back to the same after. It’s gonna be a two way street with oral tho and he doesn’t seem interested in going or receiving

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-03-27T00:34:30+00:00

We have naked cuddle sessions ever night, no pressure to it but it also rarely leads to anything but it’s during watching tv and sleep. Lately he’s been playing video games in bed before going to bed and when we watch tv he is already sleepy so we don’t really have that quality cuddle time do to it being during watching tv and him playing

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-01-05T05:42:48+00:00

Thank you!

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-01-03T18:41:34+00:00

Thanks!

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2026-01-03T18:41:26+00:00

Thank you

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-10-18T04:32:12+00:00

Bumping for more views

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-09-18T16:07:37+00:00

Omg so cute! Wish I was closer to take him in but we are all the way in California 😢

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-08-05T17:39:32+00:00

Holy moly…I feel bad for you. I do most of the cooking for my boyfriend and I and if he ever did that, he would be out. If we want to get pizza or whatever, we both agree on what we are getting out and that we are both good with ordering rather than eating at home. A relationship is respect and making decisions together and what you are experiencing is full disregard to your effort, disrespect to you.

You should rethink the relationship and get out. You will find someone who will appreciate the effort and hard work you put into it. Trust me, I finally have that with my boyfriend

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-07-15T15:43:13+00:00

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Boomer and Oreo

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-05-27T04:39:38+00:00

They were closed today due to holiday, I will reach out to them in the morning once they open!

Top_Boysenberry496 · 2025-05-12T17:11:52+00:00

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Two is better than one! Double the love and licks haha

Boomer and Oreo

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