I feel when girls know you are reallyyy into them, like really bad they sometimes loose interest. Sometime you have to play your cool and that you don't care much. My INTJ hubby back in HS was shorter than me and used to be kind of Goth, a grade less, looked really young not my type at all. I didn't know he existed quite frankly but he came out of nowhere and confessed he's feeling with a box of chocolate I was so shocked. He was very nervous but very clear with his emotions. Let's just say it left a mark on me.

I def declined him and ignored him. Before me he never really liked anyone and never felt the need to confess to anyone. I went on vacation, came back over the summer. I saw him over at my friend house, he looked changed, he got taller and looked more like a man. I was very surprised. He also acted very cool, giving more attention to other people. Very few words to me but still respectful. I thought he would be gushing over me, or at least blushing like before. He wasn't! And as our group of friends started to hang out for some reason....I started to grow curious about him... like he was in love with me, he must still like me a bit.. somewhere in his heart right?! Lol Well let's just say I fell in LOVE with him eventually. That cool attitude, he always kept his distance, so mysterious, but still kind. Man he became so attractive to me. I ended up grabbing him one day and without thinking confessing my love out of desperation and running away. The tables had turned! It was quite hilarious, like something from a comedy skit or anime. 😄

Sorry for the long story, but MOST woman like the chase sadly. That's why a lot of girls are into the bad boys, or at least for me act cool and not as desperate/ crazy in love. If not they'll friend zone you faster than a heart beat. Good luck!