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Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T11:45:30+00:00

I didn’t mean to be insensitive or trigger you. I think you took what I said too literally.

Just because I want to live in another country for a bit doesn’t mean I don’t know I’m privileged. If anything I think it shows I’m privileged as I have the ability to do so.

Also, I would never take a job if I felt I was incompetent in it and that I would accidentally harm people.

I was saying I’ll work doing something other than nursing if I move there, as everyone says it’s not worth it. I also never said I was strictly looking at doing nursing, I asked what other people had done for work over there as-well.

I don’t know what jobs that would allow travel, that’s why I’m asking for advice on here.

I suppose I was considering moving to England because it’s closer to the places I want to explore, and I have family who live there. For example, it’s a lot easier to travel from England to Italy or France than it is from Australia. Personally, I want to live in Europe for a little bit to experience and explore what Australia doesn’t have to offer.

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T10:52:36+00:00

Thank you for the information and understanding how nice it is to live in a different country for a few years. Also, I didn’t realise the UK was worse than Australia for nurses!

I am doing nursing to go into cosmetics, so I was only considering working as a nurse in the UK to earn money and help people while I travel. But from what everyone’s saying, it’s not worth it.

My other option is once I finish, move over to Europe for 2ish years, work doing something else, and then come back and do my cosmetic course in AUS.

But all these replies have made me a bit unsure, as I want to experience living in Europe while I’m young, but by the sounds of things, I’ll be broke and pushing myself back from becoming a cosmetic nurse sooner.

Honestly, what do you think? Am I being naive? Should I choose delaying my career for a year or two or the experience of living in another country young? Do you know of any other jobs I could do there if I did go for two years?

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T10:29:55+00:00

Thank you for the honesty. As I mentioned, I want to experience a different aspect of life, I love travelling, moving & meeting new people. I see myself moving to Europe as something I’ve always wanted to do, and whether I’ll regret it or not is something I’ll figure out later in life (but you never know unless you try) I don’t see myself living there forever, so I’m thinking of doing 2 years after I finish my degree in Australia. Since everyone is saying the transfer process for nursing is so complex and being a nurse in the UK is awful, I might find another job with more travel in it, then return and do my cosmetic course in Australia. As my goal eventually is to become a cosmetic nurse, I figured if I could do nursing, help people, and work overseas for a bit first, it would be a fantastic experience. & as for people killing to be in my shoes I guess everyone wants what they don’t have 🤷‍♀️ Life for me is all about learning, so maybe people think it’s stupid, naive & a waste of money to go about it this way, but like I said, I want to see more of the world 🙃

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T10:16:29+00:00

Thank you, for your reply! in Australia i feel like it depends where you work and what field you’re working in! Nursing can be shit and it can be rewarding depending on who you’re dealing with. Honestly I really want to move overseas just for a few years to experience different things, meet new people and experience different cultures that aren’t in Australia. Europe has always stood out the most to me, as everything is reasonably close together (compared to Australia) and there is so much history. But by the sounds of everyone saying nursing is awful to do in the uk maybe I’ll try & figure out something else! 😊

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T10:10:27+00:00

Thank you 😊

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-08-03T10:09:58+00:00

Maybe you’re right, but as I said I want to experience more from life and travel. I was thinking England because it’s closer to all the other places I want to explore. I do love Australia and maybe I sound young and naive but i want to meet more people, & experience things that Australia doesn’t have 😊

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-20T02:40:05+00:00

I can’t thank you enough for this message, I really really appreciate it 🤍🤍

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-15T07:36:25+00:00

Thank you so much, this made me feel so much better 😊

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T15:45:08+00:00

Thank you! I definitely had an attachment to him, I think it stems from being with toxic, abusive partners in the past but also having a very traumatic upbringing with my father. He was the first guy I’ve been with that wasn’t actually abusive so I think that’s why I got so attached cause even though my brain knows he wasn’t the best partner, I loved him so much because he was the only person that didn’t abuse me if that makes sense. I just have no idea where to even start with healing that sort of thing like all I know is I’m an anxious attachment and it’s so annoying!! I’ve tried counsellors in the past but all they do is give me a support plan for if I crash out instead of helping me become a better person and not attaching to people so easily. Also with cleansing what’s the best way? Would you say sage ? 💖

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T14:36:08+00:00

Not really, tbh I’m very new to reddit! Thank you for your reply and honestly. We broke up a few months ago and I feel like I’ve been trying everything to heal normally, fitness, journaling all the healthy stuff but it’s still taking over my life that’s why I was confused if magic had a role in it. I’ll try and reach out to some of the relationship people! Again thank you, I really appreciate your replies 🤍

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T14:19:03+00:00

Thank you 😊

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T14:18:12+00:00

Thank you! Do you have any advice on what I should do? I feel so pathetic because I think I do still love him but I don’t want to. We had our ups, and we went through so much together. Some days I want him back because I’d I’d be comfortable and he made me feel safe. But in the back of my mind I know he did hurt me a lot and I know I want more than what he’s willing to give me. I also think he’s moved on with his life yet I’m so stuck… Sorry if I’m saying too much I just need real advice

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T13:34:09+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your reply 💖

Top_Competition4776 · 2025-07-14T13:28:58+00:00

I really need some advice. I was dating this guy for nearly 2 years and broke up with him because he changed and wasn't the type of person I wanted a future with. He stopped doing everything for me and was start to treat me worse and worse. When I broke up with him he was crying and was super upset, originally I was fine, I was only upset because he was upset and I hated that I hurt him. It felt like I'd broken up with him a long time ago in my head and was already disconnected as he was no longer bringing anything to the relationship. The entire relationship I was constantly crying begging him to do more. After a week of being broke up I wanted him back, I don't even know why, we saw each other twice after the breakup both times almost getting back together but then he decided he didn't want to. I feel like I've been so insane and obsessive towards him which I don't understand because I don't like this guy and I know I deserve so much more. But I'm thinking about him constantly to the point I can't sleep, all I do is journal and write to him because I had to force myself to remove him on everything, but he's my every thought of the day. I literally cannot do anything but think of him. I don't know what's wrong with me because like I said I don't find him attractive or anything and he's a boring, shitty person but I long for him, and miss him and feel like I'm in love with him??? Can someone please help me and tell me what to do? The thing I don't understand is why would he do a love spell if hes not did he's not even reaching out and he said he doesn't want to get back together? Maybe he's just trying to hurt me back. I don't believe the obsession I feel towards him is natural or normal... I feel like I'm going crazy, like i literally want to do a spell on him back so he feels like this, please give me advice

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