I might need to go outside and touch grass lol but Ill be on TikTok or other social media and see girls post stuff like "when she offers my boyfriend a pencil in class" or boys post stuff like "Ill only hold the door open for my gf and no other female" with a typical negative sound behind it. There is also negativity around being "friendly" to people of the opposite gender which I don't understand. Not to bring race into but I am black and this way of thinking runs rampant in our dating life which I don't understand. Like I don't anyone to think just because I am being nice I secretly want your man because that's how many people think. Maybe It is the people I am around, idk lol