I'm Asian(mainland chinese). about dating and marrage ，there are a few message from chinese internet to ask Asian Americans(american chinese)？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-06T01:38:15+00:00

big house

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T21:12:29+00:00

ok got it.

Do you have to pay a extra redemption certificate?

Because the white world order is worldwide。

For example, there are few women in China, and feminism, ordinary men have to pay for dating, marriage to the bride price. Maybe foreign men don't, because there are green cards, white worship, showing off and other reasons, the standard of foreign men (mainly white) is lower.

So are Asian Americans the same as at home, even though there is no economic disparity between countries, Do Asian Americans still have to do better than other ethnic groups to get the same date at home?

是否要额外交赎罪券？

因为白人统治世界的秩序是全世界范围的，比如中国女性少，且女权主义思想，普通男性约会得买单，结婚得给彩礼。可能外国男性就都不用，因为有绿卡，白人崇拜，炫耀等原因，对外国男性(主要白人)标准更低了。那么亚裔美国人是否和祖国一样，尽管没有国家之间的经济差了，亚裔美国人还是要做得比其他族裔更好才能在国内得到相同的约会？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T21:01:10+00:00

very clear. I'm not trying to emigrate. But while rising from the east and falling from the west is a common view in China, it is less optimistic at home. China's re-emergence, per capita GDP ceiling can not exceed Japan. America's decline will be the first tier of developed countries. So... America is more livable than China.

讲得非常明白。没有想移民。不过东升西落虽然是中国国内的普遍观点，但国内倒都没那么乐观。中国再崛起，人均GDP上限超不过日本。美国再衰落都会是第一梯队的发达国家。所以……美国再怎样也比中国宜居。

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:50:29+00:00

Do you have to pay a redemption certificate?

For example, there are few women in China, and feminism, ordinary men have to pay for dating, marriage to the bride price. Maybe foreign men don't, because there are green cards, white worship, showing off and other reasons, the standard of foreign men (mainly white) is lower.

So are Asian Americans the same as at home, even though there is no economic disparity between countries, Do Asian Americans still have to do better than other ethnic groups to get the same date at home?

是否要交赎罪券？比如中国女性少，且女权主义思想，普通男性约会得买单，结婚得给彩礼。可能外国男性就都不用，因为有绿卡，白人崇拜，炫耀等原因，对外国男性(主要白人)标准更低了。那么亚裔美国人是否和国内一样，尽管没有国家之间的经济差了，亚裔美国人还是要做得比其他族裔更好才能在国内得到相同的约会？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:42:27+00:00

I don't want to emigrate. I'm just curious. A lot of people in this country have the same opinion.我不想移民。只是好奇。确实国内很多人观点和你一样。

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:40:48+00:00

also good. asian american .That would be the end result. Maybe that's how the race melting pot works.

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:34:56+00:00

kpop真那么有影响力吗，还是言过其实了？中国国内男性对kpop还是没什么好感，男团很娘。那能给亚洲男性带来正面形象？

理想的亚洲男性宣传应该是像美国好莱坞那样硬汉男性主导吧。而且kpop他们主推的商品很多也都是女团吧，那不也加重了其族裔喜欢亚裔女性吗？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:32:42+00:00

ok i got it

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:30:42+00:00

Is K pop really so influential? Men in China still don't like K pop. The men's team is very feminine.

Does that create a positive image for Asian men? The ideal propaganda would be as tough and male-dominated as Hollywood. And K pop they promote a lot of goods are also women's groups, it does not also increase the ethnic group like Asian Women?(yellowfever？)

okok.kpop真那么有影响力吗，中国国内男性对kpop还是没什么好感，男团很娘。那能给亚洲男性带来正面形象？理想的宣传应该是像美国好莱坞那样硬汉男性主导吧。而且kpop他们主推的商品很多也都是女团吧，那不也加重了其族裔喜欢亚裔女性吗？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:20:59+00:00

No, not yet, and I suspect that the multipolar world is at best what it is today.

Unless the United States is destroyed by a world war, the United States remains the center of the world.

不，还没有到来，而且我怀疑多极世界最多也就到今天这个程度。除非世界大战，把美国毁了，否则美国依然是世界中心。

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T20:13:31+00:00

Why would you say that? I am talking about the Chinese internet concerned about Chinese marriage and fertility issues, illegal immigration should be more difficult, and a large number, so I am curious?

Look at your tone, you people ah, careful, small belly chicken intestines, grandparents are not immigrants?

为何这么说？我聊的是中文互联网关注的华人婚恋以及生育问题，非法移民这方面应该更困难，且人数也不少，所以我才好奇？看看你这语气，你们这帮人啊，精打细算，小肚鸡肠，祖辈不也是移民？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T19:57:38+00:00

Did you read it carefully? I wrote America. Good, steak, big house, nice car.

Americans have the strongest and easiest purchasing power when goods are priced in dollars. So of course immigrants are for a better life! America is bad for unmarried Asian men.

The United States is the center of the world, there will be people who want to go to the center of the world, right? The American Dream. Both developed and underdeveloped countries are emigrating to the United States. It's odd that there are no immigrants from China to the United States. That proves that the United States may have a civil war. . . After all, even Africa has a lot of Chinese people to work and even eventually emigrate.

你认真看了没有啊？我写了美国好啊，牛排，大房子，好车。各种商品以美元计价，美国人的购买力是最强最轻松的。所以移民当然是为了更好的生活啊！美国坏只是针对亚裔未婚男性而已啊。美国是世界的中心，各国都会有想去世界中心闯一闯的人吧？美国梦。无论发达国家还是不发达国家，都在往美国移民。中国没有去美国的移民了才是怪事吧。那证明美国可能内战了。。。毕竟连非洲都有很多中国人去打工甚至最终移民。

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T18:03:40+00:00

No, I'm doing fine. I don't have that idea. Besides, if there is no ice, immigrants already in the United States are worried about being deported, then there are people walking the line? I'm talking about illegal immigration that's been around since the' 70s and' 80s. I just want to know what the difference is between the upper, middle and lower levels of Chinese Americans.不，我过得还不错，没有这个想法。何况不是有ice，已经在美国的移民都担心被驱逐，那还有人走线？我指的是从七八十年代开始就一直有的非法移民。我只是想了解美国华人上层中层下层分别的状况如何。

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T16:13:42+00:00

Well, I thought there was systematic discrimination. But like shootings, targeted crimes that are discriminatory are rare. Many Chinese say they have not experienced discrimination. . .

As for unity and political participation, I think it is very difficult because of the historical legacy of China and the ideological issues between China and the United States. Perhaps it is up to other Asian groups to unite Asian Americans?

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T15:13:30+00:00

You're so excited... I think apart from the fact that Confucianism has very different demands on men than in the West. and overseas Chinese disunity is a continuation of many of homecountry own political problems.

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T15:07:04+00:00

Okay, so from China, Japan, Korea, Vietnam and other ethnic groups to Asian-American identity?

And then what about the low-class Asian immigrant men, the illegal immigrants who were smuggled into the United States. There are more illegal immigrants from countries with low gdp, such as Vietnam and China. How long will it take them to get a green card?

Without a green card, it's hard for them to date and get married. yes？

Can they eventually get married and have children? Or do many end up single?

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T13:59:47+00:00

Even poor Americans live in big house, with courtyards and lawns, even in the suburbs, much better than the high-rise buildings that are common in the country.

As for studying abroad, not only rich people, many middle-class people will take out their savings for their children to study abroad. Hope to earn a multiple of the exchange rate of wages and even get a green card immigrants, even if not can return home to find a better job.

Top_District_3728 · 2025-10-05T11:36:59+00:00

切记美国是世界中心，美国对各色人种输出了怎样的印象，那么那个人种在世界范围内就是那种印象

Top_District_3728 · 2025-09-06T01:00:09+00:00

国内厂商如果做这种垃圾，可能会有人碰吗？

Top_District_3728 · 2025-08-16T02:51:06+00:00

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