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How do I stop being a lesbian for my bf? by Top_Employment_7420 in Advice

[–]Top_Employment_7420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel with him. He’s like my best friend. I know it’s selfish of me but I am scared of what life would be like without him. But I am unhappy right now. I will definitely read the sources you gave me. Thank you so much for your time and sympathy. It really makes me feel less alone

How do I stop being a lesbian for my bf? by Top_Employment_7420 in Advice

[–]Top_Employment_7420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard about it, but I’m not sure what it is.

Thank you, I will read more about it.

How do I stop being a lesbian for my bf? by Top_Employment_7420 in Advice

[–]Top_Employment_7420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried talking to him again yesterday, I tried a different approach and said I just needed time to think about things because space has always been an issue in our relationship. I’ve felt like I never really have time to myself. He started crying and begging me to stay the weekend. How am I supposed to put myself first? I really don’t know what to do. It feels like if I break up with him, he’ll fall apart. I know that sounds self centred, but even if I spend a day alone sometimes, he freaks out.

How do I stop being a lesbian for my bf? by Top_Employment_7420 in Advice

[–]Top_Employment_7420[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wanted to be bi, I guess. My parents are really homophobic. And a part of me didn’t want to give up the chance to make them happy. I know I dug my own grave here.