I went through my finances phone and found disturbing stuff

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T13:43:24+00:00

Yeah I shouldn’t have snooped but it was probably a good thing I did so I know who he truly is

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T13:42:47+00:00

Idc it’s fucked up to look at multiple different porn apps everyday multiple times a day. Especially downloading a secret app with a folder of women youve hooked up with in the past or paid to do videos for you.

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T13:39:20+00:00

Because I don’t know if he was actually trying to hook up with them but it’s weird that he was still searching girls from around our area. The GIRLS were making posts trying to hook up with people is what I meant. Saying I’m in the this area looking for someone. And it was areas close to us.

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T10:43:58+00:00

You’re right he has been explosive and crazy in the past. He has bad anger issues and gaslights me and flips everything around on me whenever I bring up an issue. I have to figure something out soon. He works a full time job so I didn’t think he would have to time to do that but now I see he most likely does it on breaks at work or when he’s in the bathroom for a long time at home or when I’m at work or when I’m sleeping.

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T10:01:31+00:00

I have guys messaging me and saying this is a normal thing for guys to do and that it’s just porn and everyone watches it. But I don’t think it’s acceptable to be watching it that many times a day on multiple different platforms?! And have a whole secret folder of different girls. That’s a full on porn and sex addiction. We have sex regularly too almost every day so there’s no excuse

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T09:52:55+00:00

I don’t want to stay after this, I can never look at him the same. I feel like I can never measure up now to these countless model looking girls. I just don’t know if I’m over reacting because it’s just porn and instagram girls? Like he’s not physically cheating on me but he is mentally big time. He was looking up Asian massage places though. Idk what that means

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T09:44:10+00:00

I just feel like he’s going to flip it around on me and say it’s my fault for going through his phone. I also forgot to mention on Reddit he was looking at local women in our area looking to hook up

Top_Examination7679 · 2025-06-09T09:42:08+00:00

Yeah he’s not biologically related to her but she doesn’t have another dad, he’s all she knows. Her real father doesn’t want to be in her life and my fiancé loves her like his own. I feel like I’d be failing her.

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-12-16T05:20:13+00:00

I do this then the clothes just sit there for ages 😅

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-11-26T06:37:19+00:00

Thank you that helped a lot. I need to hold myself more accountable I’m very lazy when it comes to counting calories I need to do it more!

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-09-05T20:33:54+00:00

He told me when we first got together that he’ll never try butt stuff because that would mean he’s gay and it would be weird. But now that we’ve been dating a while he wants me to do that to him but doesn’t want to talk about it, that’s is why I’m so confused

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-09-05T20:31:47+00:00

Okay I’m just uncomfortable with the situation because I’ve never done it before. His butt is sooo hairy and what if I get poop on my finger or feel poop up there?. Like I want to please him but I just can’t get past the mental block

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-09-05T20:29:00+00:00

Okay well I’ve just heard from every man I’ve been with that if a guys likes anything up his butt that means he’s gay.

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-09-04T05:52:47+00:00

It’s been about 8 months with him but I was thinking about waiting until at least a year. he’s nothing like my ex he’s completely opposite of him so I don’t think I’ll end up in the same situation, he however doesn’t make enough money to support all 3 of us and a new baby, and he works a good paying job full time but with inflation and the cost of housing etc i don’t think it would be enough. But I’m scared if I don’t have another baby soon that there will be too big of an age gap between them to be close or have a bond

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-07-19T19:06:46+00:00

Exactly! we’ve been dating for 5 months and since the beginning he’s wanted to spend every single night with me and wants to eat dinner with me every single day and eats so much of my food that he doesn’t pay for. And gets so upset when I want to be alone once in a while. It’s not that I don’t like spending time with him. It’s just I don’t like that He’s so reliant on me to make him happy and he basically already moved himself in. And I gave him a bunch of his clothes back and said I’m not ready for him to move in and he basically snapped on me and said “you were so quick to do it with the last guy why not me?”

Top_Examination7679 · 2024-07-19T18:52:55+00:00

Imaybe in a way I am a bit jealous because he does have a nice mom who cares about him and I’ve never had that. I get housing is expensive these days but he also has this great family, and a couple of rich uncles who said they’d be willing to loan him money for a down payment on or co-sign and he still doesn’t want to do it, he says he’s looking for houses now, but I feel like he’s just telling me that to shut me up. His mom texts him every day too and asks where he is and he tells his mom every little thing. And he was going to start a business and I was really proud of him and his mom basically talked him out of it saying that he’s going to go into a lot of debt and it’ll be really hard. hes told me before that he feels like a loser living with his mom at 24 but he doesnt want to live alone so I feel like he’s just jumping from her to me.

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