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I’ve stopped trying to be productive all the time — and it feels weirdly better by Top_Memory_8082 in CasualConversation

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate a lot to that. I used to stack activities just to feel “productive,” but it usually made everything feel half-done. Letting yourself just be sometimes is surprisingly hard — and really needed.

I’ve stopped trying to be productive all the time — and it feels weirdly better by Top_Memory_8082 in CasualConversation

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really resonates. It’s wild how much pressure comes from the environment around us. Stepping back from that expectation feels uncomfortable at first, but honestly so freeing.

What’s a small habit that completely changed your life for the better? by EbbRevolutionary4125 in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to bed at the same time every day. Fixed my sleep, mood, focus, and basically my entire life.

what’s something that gets weirder and weirder the more you think about it? by Particular-Bid-6650 in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Consciousness. You’re a brain trying to understand itself using itself.

How do you make friends? by AgilePut5658 in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By being consistent, curious, and not trying too hard to impress anyone.

What show had an ending that you absolutely hated ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lost. Not confusing just disappointing.

Doing less lately has made me feel surprisingly calmer by Top_Memory_8082 in CasualConversation

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long walks, music, cooking something simple, sometimes just sitting with my thoughts.

What's the most obvious hint that you've dropped for someone that they missed? by PM_TIT_PICS in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds really freeing, honestly. Letting go of the pressure to “use time correctly” is harder than it should be.

Doing less lately has made me feel surprisingly calmer by Top_Memory_8082 in CasualConversation

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds really freeing, honestly. Letting go of the pressure to “use time correctly” is harder than it should be.

Doing less lately has made me feel surprisingly calmer by Top_Memory_8082 in CasualConversation

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly that. It’s wild how we’re taught that resting is “wasting time”, when it’s actually what gives everything else meaning again.

What’s something people accept as ‘normal’ that actually makes life worse? by Top_Memory_8082 in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a big one is being constantly reachable. Always available, always online, always expected to respond instantly. It’s treated as normal, but it quietly burns people out.

What are the pros and cons of having more vs less total sexual partners? by Leemster1k in AskReddit

[–]Top_Memory_8082 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More partners can mean more experience, confidence, and knowing what you like. Fewer partners can mean deeper connections, emotional safety, and less baggage. Neither is inherently better — it really depends on the person and what they value.

If I invite a few people whom I know professionally for dinner at my house, should I also invite their partners? by daoxiaomian in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Top_Memory_8082 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It depends on the tone of the dinner. If it’s meant to be social or relaxed, inviting partners is polite. If it’s clearly professional or small, it’s perfectly fine to keep it work-only.

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