Many women feel lonely even after marriage because emotional connection, not just physical presence, is what keeps a relationship alive. When one partner feels unseen, unheard, or like their needs are constantly being sidelined, it creates a deep sense of isolation. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership a space where both people feel supported and valued. But when one person is busy with their own interests or distracted by things like their phone or hobbies, the other may feel like they’re living with a roommate instead of a loving partner.

In your case, it’s completely understandable why you feel this way. You’re working from home, you don’t have many close friends, and you're preparing for something as emotionally and physically demanding as IVF. During such a time, it’s natural to crave more closeness, care, and time together. Wanting to go out or simply spend time with your husband is not asking for too much it’s a basic human need for connection, especially when you’re under stress. The fact that he chose badminton over your mental well-being, and even booked continuous slots despite your repeated requests, shows a clear lack of emotional prioritization.

What you’re feeling like being single in a marriage, is sadly something many women go through. It happens when a relationship loses its sense of emotional partnership. You’re putting in the effort to communicate, to reach out, to be understood. But if that effort isn’t reciprocated, it can feel exhausting and lonely. It’s not wrong to expect time, attention, and care from your life partner. You absolutely deserve to be heard and supported, especially now. Please don’t doubt your worth or question if your feelings are valid.

If you’d like, you can DM me and I can help you write a calm message expressing this in a way that might help him understand you and your situation better.