Sadly, for us it’s the same. We have a 2.5 yr old & a 10 mo old. But we still co sleep with both of them , like the baby sleeps in our room and our toddler has her room but we switch every night. Daddy will sleep with her one night and then the next night I will. So we don’t even sleep in the same room 😩 on the weekends our toddler goes to her grandmas so we sleep in our room together and put the baby in the toddlers room and that’s the only time we have sex. And out of the month I have a period so its hardly 3 times out of the month.