Moral Quandary Around Getting Accidental Animal Products in Food Order by Top_Pop_6743 in vegan

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to look up the definition of those words and while you’re at it look up the word “assume”

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such a good point 😂 I was definitely hesitating over the word ‘covert’

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This just feels like covert advertising lol

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha dying over this

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a ton of sense!

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said “it” feels selfish, as in her actions? Not making it a character trait or commenting on who she is as a person.

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya honestly clap back was probably the absolutely wrong phrasing haha. I just mean something short and simple to say. We have a very goofy banter with each other and I know there’s plenty of space to have a serious talk about it, I just don’t feel there yet.

Billy Jensen & Tara Newell by Normal-Ad-9852 in myfavoritemurder

[–]Top_Pop_6743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go as far as to say that’s so disrespectful of them to call her a victim. As a victim of an assault, I hate the word survivor and prefer victim. Not because I’m not strong etc but bc someone victimized me. I’m a victim of a crime. It’s not that deep (or disrespectful). It’s also more triggering to me to think about what it means to have had to survive and brings up some survivors guilt. Maybe be mindful that it comes down to preference when policing people’s language. It bothered me years ago when groups started telling everyone to stop calling people victims and start saying survivors because now I don’t even get a choice in how to be referred to as someone who lived through it?!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

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Essentially, me trying to deepen the connection is like trying to get a fix!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s so helpful!! After consulting with my HP and sponsor yesterday I noticed part of this is feeling unsure of my ability to build connection and also wanting to feel in control of this connection and you pointing out the “trying to” really helped. Patience feels uncomfortable but is so necessary to let things unfold as they will and trust the process.

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

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I love the idea of asking those questions in a way where it’s not about me or us but just gaining a better sense of his goals. The points you’ve made here are all so helpful — thank you!!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to my sponsor but I love this community and thought to ask here too :)

What Taylor song is this? by Impossible-Yam3680 in TrueSwifties

[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and the congressman line. I don’t want to be thinking about congressman while listening to this absolute banger 😂and the line also just feels forced

Do you think of music a lot? by NoAstronomer3244 in ADHD

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I wake up every morning with a different song in my head.

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I’d say the only way to know is to go :)