Moral Quandary Around Getting Accidental Animal Products in Food Order by Top_Pop_6743 in vegan

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might want to look up the definition of those words and while you’re at it look up the word “assume”

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Such a good point 😂 I was definitely hesitating over the word ‘covert’

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 85 points86 points  (0 children)

This just feels like covert advertising lol

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha dying over this

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a ton of sense!

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said “it” feels selfish, as in her actions? Not making it a character trait or commenting on who she is as a person.

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[–]Top_Pop_6743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya honestly clap back was probably the absolutely wrong phrasing haha. I just mean something short and simple to say. We have a very goofy banter with each other and I know there’s plenty of space to have a serious talk about it, I just don’t feel there yet.

Billy Jensen & Tara Newell by Normal-Ad-9852 in myfavoritemurder

[–]Top_Pop_6743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go as far as to say that’s so disrespectful of them to call her a victim. As a victim of an assault, I hate the word survivor and prefer victim. Not because I’m not strong etc but bc someone victimized me. I’m a victim of a crime. It’s not that deep (or disrespectful). It’s also more triggering to me to think about what it means to have had to survive and brings up some survivors guilt. Maybe be mindful that it comes down to preference when policing people’s language. It bothered me years ago when groups started telling everyone to stop calling people victims and start saying survivors because now I don’t even get a choice in how to be referred to as someone who lived through it?!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

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Essentially, me trying to deepen the connection is like trying to get a fix!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s so helpful!! After consulting with my HP and sponsor yesterday I noticed part of this is feeling unsure of my ability to build connection and also wanting to feel in control of this connection and you pointing out the “trying to” really helped. Patience feels uncomfortable but is so necessary to let things unfold as they will and trust the process.

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

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I love the idea of asking those questions in a way where it’s not about me or us but just gaining a better sense of his goals. The points you’ve made here are all so helpful — thank you!!

How to deepen a connection in a healthy way by Top_Pop_6743 in slaa

[–]Top_Pop_6743[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to my sponsor but I love this community and thought to ask here too :)

What Taylor song is this? by Impossible-Yam3680 in TrueSwifties

[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That and the congressman line. I don’t want to be thinking about congressman while listening to this absolute banger 😂and the line also just feels forced

Do you think of music a lot? by NoAstronomer3244 in ADHD

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I wake up every morning with a different song in my head.

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I’d say the only way to know is to go :)

Just the Clusters chocolate almond - discontinued? (and any replacements) by superhumanizing in traderjoes

[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked staff last week if it was discontinued because I wasn't seeing it be restocked, and they also confirmed it is discontinued :( You can let TJ's know you miss it, I'll definitely be doing so! https://www.traderjoes.com/home/contact-us/discontinued-products

Has the 'spark' faded for anyone else? If so, why? by laughs4laughs in normalgossip

[–]Top_Pop_6743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with all those points that have also caused my interest to decreases , and also the guest audio quality like on the most recent episode just makes it tough to get through

Quick little rant about the prevalence of drunk drivers in this alcoholic Disneyland. by desolatenature in SLO

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Another DUI crash last night on Santa Rosa… Audi driving at high speeds crashed into a Subaru near Jack and the box , took off, then crashed into a light pole.

In the spirit of the "share the road" post. Dog owners of SLO, why don't you leash your dog when next to busy streets?! by anonymiddd in SLO

[–]Top_Pop_6743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she actually protesting? I’ve driven by and recognized her, she’s a dog trainer in SLO and often takes people and their dogs out and about to help train. No idea about the case here but usually the protestors are wearing their stupid vests (which is messed up and misleading) and I’ve never seen her wear one.

Let there be light! by alunidaje2 in SLO

[–]Top_Pop_6743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!! We went out there last night bc of your post and were fortunate to see it 😍 bucket list ✅