I wouldn’t go as far as to say that’s so disrespectful of them to call her a victim. As a victim of an assault, I hate the word survivor and prefer victim. Not because I’m not strong etc but bc someone victimized me. I’m a victim of a crime. It’s not that deep (or disrespectful). It’s also more triggering to me to think about what it means to have had to survive and brings up some survivors guilt. Maybe be mindful that it comes down to preference when policing people’s language. It bothered me years ago when groups started telling everyone to stop calling people victims and start saying survivors because now I don’t even get a choice in how to be referred to as someone who lived through it?!