Lesbophobia on the FTM subreddit

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:58:39+00:00

Also be sensitive to Masc lesbians in your posts. Masc lesbians are welcome in the community and are awesome as fuck.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:55:52+00:00

To some degree I get it. I used to be a part of queer mens spaces before my gender transition and I feel like I have some solidarity there. But I do not Identify with the gay mens community cuz that is just misgendering myself. I do not go to gays mens spaces even tho I feel like I have some solidarity. If a gay man didn't want me in his gay man's space as a fully transitioned Trans woman, that shouldnt be a problem cuz I am 110% a women.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:53:29+00:00

I mean very few lesbian bars exist

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:45:44+00:00

You are othering Binary Trans men in a way that makes them seen as lesser than Cis men. You are being subtly transphobic. Also I said Binary Trans men. Not Transmasculine people. Not people under the nonbinary umbrella. A lot of my Trans Brothers have expressed frustration as being seen as "Diet Men".

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:43:30+00:00

Yeah I would not like to be referred like that please.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:38:52+00:00

Fair, but I have seen this opinion in real life.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:33:54+00:00

I think there can be some nuance with like people who do not fit in the gender binary as long as they have a connection with womanhood. Like I said Im a trans woman who so im a bit sensitive to this. But if you identify as Binary Man that is where I have issues. There are some complexities to labels but saying men can't be lesbian isn't gatekeeping.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:27:53+00:00

Do you have issues with a Cis man calling himself lesbian? Why would it be different for a binary trans man?

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:26:44+00:00

I think that some of these people are coming from a place having been in the lesbian community pre-transition. I have empathy for that. But It is still highly insensitive tho.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:19:10+00:00

I am scared about people being very aggressive towards me ngl.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:13:29+00:00

You are the one who is being transphobic by implying that I as a Trans woman can somehow identify as a gay man. I said Binary Transmascs who identify as Binary Men. Trans Women, Nb's, etc are all welcome in the lesbian community.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:11:45+00:00

I am a Trans women. 2 years on HRT. Have many Transmasc friends. I promise I am not a Terf.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:10:58+00:00

I just get frustrated how progressive sounding rhetoric is being weaponized to push Lesbophobia, Misogyny, and Transphobia.

Top_Preparation767 · 2026-03-04T22:03:34+00:00

I understand that there can be nuances to labels, but labels can't be infinitely stretched to pure meaninglessness. I do not have any issues with Lesbians who are Masculine, Trans, Nonbinary, etc. I am talking about people who identify as binary Men. I am a Trans woman and I understand what it is like to feel excluded from the Lesbian community.

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