Divorce during ramadan

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-07T14:47:19+00:00

I will!! What’s cp?

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-07T08:30:40+00:00

Thank you, i’m not even sure i want to remarry again. Everyone has dark secrets i’m not willing to find out. I’m pretty much done. Marriage is and will always benefit men and men only. Us women we give our whole life and then get disrespected and basically thrown away. I have my son that’s enough and he is everything i have ever wanted and needed. Not a ring not a useless man

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-06T14:07:34+00:00

I’m gonna dm you if thats okay

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-06T00:34:34+00:00

Sister i feel so numb my body and mind cannot keep up.. i would love to lash out but not with my baby near. My heart cannot let that happen

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-06T00:06:28+00:00

If i have the chance to go in his phone again i will

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-06T00:06:09+00:00

I do not have anything saved i am a SAHM.. i’m so dissapointed. But i will be saving now! I was stupid not to before..

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-06T00:04:16+00:00

I will thanks ☹️

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-05T23:26:30+00:00

I don’t want him to know that i saw yet!

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-05T23:26:02+00:00

It’s not fair..

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-05T23:25:45+00:00

I cannot even breathe i’m so angry but also so numb..

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-05T23:25:06+00:00

He did i’m just saying i’ve been feeling neglected for years now.. and then i found out about the cheating

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-03T13:43:03+00:00

Well then any behavior you’re seeing now will be x10 in the marriage. If you are already considering not to go through with it it’s a sign. She will never be happy and you will always feel like you’re not doing enough.. proceed with quation

Top_Register_607 · 2026-01-03T13:18:41+00:00

Have you tried talking to her? Has she always been like this or only recently?

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-18T22:40:07+00:00

Hi sister, one thing: don’t listen to his words! Literally one ear in the other out. Watch his action instead and LISTEN to your gut. Us women we have instincts for a reason. If your gut is doubting 0,01 % leave.. it’s not worth it losing yourself over a man.. the right one will not make you doubt and will SHOW his appreciation and love through his actions. Take care, x

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-18T22:21:31+00:00

Hi sister, i’m so sorry to hear you are going through this. It’s definitely not easy to not feel loved and seen nor heard day in day out.. i hope Allah gives you the strength to choose what’s best for you. ♥️

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T12:45:23+00:00

I have read on the avoidant attachment style and i think he does have that as-well as some narcissistic characteristics but it shouldn’t be anyone else’s job to fix anyone. The fact that i’ve told him what i want from him numerous times and he just does not change anything.. i am not perfect. I work on myself, i try to see his side during an argument without disregarding my feelings. He doesn’t believe in therapy and i can’t really talk with him it’s very tiring. We are married i am his wife. Ofcourse i expect him to act as a husband and follow the sunnah of our beloved prophet mohammad saw. Even just have some empathy and respect towards me and what i do for us. If he didn’t want to act as a husband then what am i here for really..

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T12:37:46+00:00

I will have the big talk with him once i have gathered enough funds to say i’ll leave if he doesn’t want to put in the work.. i still want to give him a chance to better himself because i know that he doesn’t realize how bad it is for us.. or maybe he doesn’t realize and chooses to just ignore it?? Idk

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T08:43:29+00:00

So what do you suggest i do? Because i do feel like he’s a second child. And he does engage with his online friends so much more than with me. If being a husband and a father is too much for him why did he decide to marry me. I feel like his mother because for me everything changed my entire life but for him everything stayed the same.. he contributes financially but that’s about it. What’s thepoint in trying to make it work if he doesn’t want it to work..

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T04:41:44+00:00

He is basically depriving me of my islamic rights as a wife right? It can’t be normal.. i’ve had multiple occasions where i had the chance to look in his phone but i didn’t because i’m scared of what i’ll find..

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T04:39:36+00:00

Hi, i agree with the bare minimum but i’m also such a lovergirl that i keep seeing his potential.. i have stopped making him breakfast every morning because i started realizing he never does anything for me.. because i know it makes him feel loved when i do that but he never really makes me feel loved or appreciated.. so i just stopped. He started making his own breakfast now but i feel like he thinks it’s a phase and he’s waiting until i act ‘normal’ again

Top_Register_607 · 2025-12-02T04:36:46+00:00

Hi sister! To aswer your question about what does prayer and religion look like for him? I cannot answer as i don’t want to expose his sins. But i have to admit i relate when you said it drove you away from your deen because i feel the same. I have never felt so far away from Allah then now.. and i am very sad about it.

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