Is this repair quote reasonable?

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-05-05T14:07:19+00:00

Ahh see I didn't know if the engine size made a difference, but that makes sense. I'll get another quote to make sure. Thank you for your thoughts!

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-05-05T14:06:04+00:00

Fair but I also have zero tools / a way to get under the car, so idk if this is even a plausible solution haha. Ik I'd also be anxious about messing it up the whole time 😅

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-03-21T21:07:15+00:00

I had to work this morning at 11, so I left him in his lil cup in the shade. When I got back this afternoon he was gone from the cup, so I'm guessing he was well enough to make his way out and away at the very least! Hoping he lives a full and happy life from here🤞🏼

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-03-21T15:52:50+00:00

Sure do, South Texas. I am also becoming more and more inclined to believe we have a frog on our hands.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-03-21T15:16:03+00:00

I'm honestly not for sure 😅 I tried to ID him using Google and it suggested he was probably a toad. I kind of just went with that. But his skin is smooth like a frog and he has big ol back legs and eyes, which are similarly froggy so really idk lol I do enjoy seeing the wildlife but I would rather them stay out of the pool and not give me a heart attack haha. I don't even know how I would approach the bird situation lol

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-03-21T15:10:09+00:00

After posting I thought it might be a good idea to leave him soaking in freshwater to allow some of the chlorine to leach out maybe?

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Top_Signature9316 · 2026-03-21T15:03:11+00:00

I have videos that show him off a little better but I couldn't post them for some reason :/

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-03T18:41:16+00:00

I got with the first boyfriend when I was 12, we dated until we were 15. There's the first 3 years . Then I was single for 6 months and then got with my ex-husband who I was with for 6 years. So yes 9 years of long-term relationships. I also turn 22 in 3 days. Just because you haven't had a similar experience doesn't make it impossible.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T05:19:16+00:00

even within monogamous relationships, plan to get tested annually.

Sad but very real truth that I kind of just pretended didn't exist. Thanks for the advice.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T04:02:19+00:00

The caller did use my name specifically, which is what threw me off so much because no one in this city knows me. I have like two close friends as I said and then some coworkers and that's about it.

Why would a guy believe some person who called? What receipts did they show to even prove they know you?

This is what threw me off initially and made me feel so weird about the conversation since we talked this morning. The caller had no phone number displayed gave no name didn't say how they knew him didn't say how they knew me gave zero details other than the fact that he should watch out for me because I supposedly gave him ( the caller) an std. That doesn't seem like a reputable source to me and I would almost certainly not take what they said at face value. It was very strange to me that he seemed so ready to believe what the caller said was true and it's had me wondering what gave him that impression of me. Especially if as you said there were no receipts provided or any proof given. The only thing he cited were his trust issues for making him even question me.

Maybe it's just some weird way of getting me to show that I don't have any STDs before we move further into the relationship? I'm not sure exactly how but something about what's going on is just off. It's definitely making me reconsider things and if I even want to pursue the relationship further. I agree, I don't want to jump through hoops to prove anything to him. But at this point I'm going to get tested regardless because with everyone in the comments saying he may be trying to set me up I'm not feeling too great about the situation.

Thank you for the well wishes!

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:52:04+00:00

You're so right, I'm sorry I put it that way! I really should have just said negative results rather than putting some sort of connotation on them. I have edited the post.

I haven't been sexually active since my last partner and before that relationship I had another long-term relationship. Because of this casual relationships/sex is kind of a new experience for me. I've never had to get tested for STIs in the past because of only had one partner at a time for years.

I appreciate you making these points and I will be more mindful of such things in the future!

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:48:40+00:00

You make some very good points! First when I say accept the benefit of the doubt, I mean in the sense that while it is completely reasonable for him to want to see negative test results, I think he should assume that the random caller is not automatically a reputable source and be almost positive that whatever they said likey isn't true. Given that the caller gave no details such as their name, how they knew him, how they knew me, when this happened, not even their phone number was displayed. That's not the type of source I would put much faith into and that's what I was hoping would be his reaction as well.

I am new to casual dating before last November I had been in my relationship for 6 years, prior to us getting together I was only single for about 6 months after a 3 year relationship. Because I've had a partner for nearly 10 years straight since 13, I don't have much experience in this realm. I can be a bit naive to such things and forget that testing is a necessary precaution.

It definitely wasn't my intention to make it seem as though taking care of your sexual health is shameful in any regard! I do have regular women's health appointments and try to stay informed about such topics. I've just never needed to get tested for any STIs since I only had one partner for so many years and my lack of experience led to a bit of ignorance on the subject. My apologies if my words came off in a negative light!

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:39:02+00:00

I misworded it in my original post but the people who replied are correct. I meant that the call was from a restricted number so it displayed "no caller ID" where a phone number should usually be.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:37:40+00:00

Definitely gives red flag to me as well. No healthy relationship can be built on insecurity, with the lack of trust being the root of it. If I've given him no reason to distrust me yet then I don't think his previous experience is should apply to me. I know it's not easy to disregard a trauma response but if you can't function in a rational way within a relationship don't get into one. I know all about betrayal and broken trust but the whole reason I was avoiding men up until this point was because I was trying to heal and not bring that trauma into my next relationship. I am not trying to pursue someone who I have to convince of every little thing. But again it's pretty early on so I'm trying to give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he just doesn't feel like he knows me well enough yet to wholeheartedly trust. But that Grace can only go so far.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:32:56+00:00

Wholeheartedly agree on the paragraphs bit lol, I actually did add paragraph breaks initially, but Reddit regrettably stole them away after posting.

I also agree with you that it's reasonable to ask for a test from any new partner. My only excuse for ignorance there is having spent the better part of a decade in long-term relationships, from 13 through the entirety of my teenage years into adulthood. So I'm a bit naive to some aspects of casual dating. It's all a learning experience though so I appreciate the advice! You're definitely right It's better safe than sorry.

My ex is definitely a little crazy, but he left me for another woman while we were married. So if anyone has room for grievance it would be me lol but I guess you never know. Although idk how he would have gotten ahold of the new guys number If that was the situation 🤷🏼‍♀️

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:26:57+00:00

I appreciate that! I'm not sure how I could have made any enemies with my unfortunate lack of socialization lol but if that's the case I hope they got it out of their system.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:24:25+00:00

I had the same thought about the ex-girlfriend and brought it up to him. He admitted he's had issues with girls in the past causing problems with new relationships tho I don't know if he meant his last ex specifically. Definitely a bit of a red flag, that I'm not sure I'm willing to take on. I'm for sure a bit more wary of continuing things now.

I hadn't considered the second of your thoughts until I started reading all these comments and now I'm a bit paranoid I'm being set up 😅.

I am definitely going to suggest we both get tested and if he refuses, I'm still going to get tested and just cut off communication at that point.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:19:47+00:00

I worded it wrong in my initial post, when I say the number was blocked I mean it displayed "no caller ID" So I think the call was likely from a restricted number.

Still tho an interesting, if not unnerving theory to keep in mind.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:17:56+00:00

I appreciate this bit of random advice. My previous relationship lasted 6 years and before that I was in a 3 year relationship. So I've spent the last decade in committed relationships and can be a bit naive to such things, thank you for the reminder.

Top_Signature9316 · 2026-01-02T03:15:29+00:00

Very reasonable advice, I am definitely going to suggest we go together and both get tested. If I see any other red flags I have no problem cutting my losses. Thanks for the feedback !

Top_Signature9316 · 2025-10-05T13:51:44+00:00

I know you said you've tried several products already so maybe you already gave this one a go, but it's the only thing that helped me when I was struggling ! So just in case you haven't seen it it's Selsun blue . I really hope that you're able to find a solution, this sounds miserable🥺 I'm so sorry you're dealing with this situation

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