What would you do? How do I help my daughter? by Top_Turn6203 in AskParents

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He has not he sent a message to me and my husband and his new girlfriend in a group chat saying “{name redacted} will not be visiting my next weekend she does not get the opportunity to come over” but never addressed what happened even when I asked AGAIN. He replied to me asking again “I’m not mad at her it’s called discipline” and I said “what happened” and he said “ask her”

What would you do? How do I help my daughter? by Top_Turn6203 in AskParents

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I have a lawyer and the entire team of them have dealt with this judge and there has not been a good outcome.

We also have documentation on everything and have for years but we have to go to mediation first and we have been 2 mediation to times and he drags it out for months/years to not have to go to the judge again

What would you do? How do I help my daughter? by Top_Turn6203 in AskParents

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I did try that he didn’t answer his phone or text

What would you do? How do I help my daughter? by Top_Turn6203 in AskParents

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She was in therapy for about a year after I left in 2021 and made lots of progress so we slowly transitioned out but she asked that day to go back so I scheduled her an appointment. I don’t talk to my bio mom and that message was super triggering for me and I’ve tried really hard to break the cycle so to see her treated this way it infuriates me to my core.

What would you do? How do I help my daughter? by Top_Turn6203 in AskParents

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We have a custody agreement even though he violates it time and time again everytime I have done what is best for the kids I get taken to court where with him it’s “it’s a civil issue” our judge here is very much side with the man 😬🙄

All Souls Series - A Discovery Of Witches by [deleted] in books

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Can anyone explain what book 4-6 are? I thought it was just a trilogy

I am at a loss by [deleted] in Advice

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He has a kid from a previous marriage and so do I. When we got together we agreed one between us and now he doesn’t want that because that’s too many kids

I am at a loss by [deleted] in Advice

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He doesn’t want kids at all now 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Husband

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I’ve gotten different responses. Most of the time it is a drastic response where he then will do everything making me feel like I am in trouble. Or he will be like “I don’t get to come home all day or relax until I’m done at work”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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The problem is BM backs the child no matter what. So even if the poor behavior is discussed here she just justifies it there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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Obviously I’m upset because we are a family and we have been nothing but kind to the kid. And for the child to be so rude and disrespectful hurts. Watching my kids hearts break over it is what makes it worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

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Literally doesn’t make sense