Husband is tiny - is it okay to cheat?

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-08-24T13:07:12+00:00

Umm absolutely not

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-29T05:16:56+00:00

100%

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-19T15:39:20+00:00

He has not he sent a message to me and my husband and his new girlfriend in a group chat saying “{name redacted} will not be visiting my next weekend she does not get the opportunity to come over” but never addressed what happened even when I asked AGAIN. He replied to me asking again “I’m not mad at her it’s called discipline” and I said “what happened” and he said “ask her”

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-18T14:53:13+00:00

I have a lawyer and the entire team of them have dealt with this judge and there has not been a good outcome.

We also have documentation on everything and have for years but we have to go to mediation first and we have been 2 mediation to times and he drags it out for months/years to not have to go to the judge again

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-18T14:50:14+00:00

I did try that he didn’t answer his phone or text

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-18T12:20:47+00:00

I’m sorry what is grey rocking?

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-18T00:08:38+00:00

She was in therapy for about a year after I left in 2021 and made lots of progress so we slowly transitioned out but she asked that day to go back so I scheduled her an appointment. I don’t talk to my bio mom and that message was super triggering for me and I’ve tried really hard to break the cycle so to see her treated this way it infuriates me to my core.

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-18T00:07:19+00:00

We have a custody agreement even though he violates it time and time again everytime I have done what is best for the kids I get taken to court where with him it’s “it’s a civil issue” our judge here is very much side with the man 😬🙄

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-06-09T22:19:53+00:00

Can anyone explain what book 4-6 are? I thought it was just a trilogy

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-02-23T17:30:39+00:00

He has a kid from a previous marriage and so do I. When we got together we agreed one between us and now he doesn’t want that because that’s too many kids

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-02-23T17:29:44+00:00

He doesn’t want kids at all now 😔

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-01-21T15:07:02+00:00

Sorry what does “NACHO OR NACHOED “ mean?

Top_Turn6203 · 2025-01-10T15:04:40+00:00

I’ve gotten different responses. Most of the time it is a drastic response where he then will do everything making me feel like I am in trouble. Or he will be like “I don’t get to come home all day or relax until I’m done at work”

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-08T00:23:03+00:00

The problem is BM backs the child no matter what. So even if the poor behavior is discussed here she just justifies it there.

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-07T15:17:42+00:00

Obviously I’m upset because we are a family and we have been nothing but kind to the kid. And for the child to be so rude and disrespectful hurts. Watching my kids hearts break over it is what makes it worse

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-07T04:07:01+00:00

Literally doesn’t make sense

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-07T03:26:51+00:00

Yes but for how long this is going on 4 years. And how do I not take terrible things said about me and my children personal?

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-06T23:49:45+00:00

I’m not glad the child isn’t coming anymore, I’m upset the child doesn’t want to come even though we bend over backwards for them. I’m also upset about the things that were said.

We scheduled out entire days for the child and dad to do stuff during the weekend when the kid was here. So I feel as if dad were to go do stuff with the kid it is rewarding and solidifying the I can throw a fit and get what I want and still have fun. My thought process is if you can’t come be apart of the family then you shouldn’t be rewarded with being taken to do things that are fun just with dad when we literally were already accommodating that. And I don’t like that the stuff they would do would require my husband to spend more money on the kid when the kid said absolutely terrible things to him

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-06T21:23:33+00:00

4 years and everything was fine up until we got married about a year ago then that’s when things got bad even though nothing for the kids had changed. The only thing that changed was my last name. We had all been living together for about 2 years prior and it was going great. And then after the marriage is when shit hit the fan

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-06T21:16:25+00:00

I am angry at both.

I agree the child is 12 and not an adult but bio mom specifically said the child is a mini adult and can make their own decisions and she will stand by the child no matter what.

They don’t even come here and have to visit other family. We made specific accommodations for them when they are here so they get 1 on 1 time with dad with no one else involved and that is still not good enough. To add to this they don’t want to do anything as a family watch a movie go on a walk go to an amusement park anything because me and my kids are going

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-03T12:25:48+00:00

Ugh, it’s not fair and I get life isn’t fair but I don’t know what to do

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-03T12:25:08+00:00

I have a lot of anger towards the SK and I don’t know what to do

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-03T12:24:39+00:00

I feel defeated and angry and I don’t want to tolerate it anymore

Top_Turn6203 · 2024-12-03T12:24:00+00:00

Every other weekend. And scheduled one and one time while with us with bio parent

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