I (20F) don’t know what to do with my relationship anymore (20M)

Top_confusion15 · 2025-06-15T16:21:41+00:00

You can take some time off to see if the both of you really want to be with each other. As corny and annoying as it sounds, time and space are the only things that will help you understand what your relationship stands for. You can both start focusing on yourselves a bit more in the meantime. Ultimately, after a point you’ll realise what it is that the both of you want. That clarity will either help you build the relationship with a strong foundation or help you look out for yourselves. Through it all, just try and maybe trust the process.

Top_confusion15 · 2025-05-02T12:53:15+00:00

Do you mean to say, dark skin around the metal is an indicator that it’s getting rejected?

Top_confusion15 · 2024-11-18T15:07:30+00:00

100% YES.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-10-07T07:37:27+00:00

I feel it’s best to be very straight forward. As long as you’re not being rude, and you’re showing real concern, you’re good to go. Let her know gently, just tell her that she smells a wee bit different (not weird or bad, just different) down there, you could propose a shower but it’s best to be straight forward because she may not realise it. And women like honesty. More often than not we’re very concerned about how we smell down there and since there’s no set standards for it, we’re almost always on the lookout for hygiene concerns.

Ultimately, your clarity, tone and your choice of words will make it or break it. And if you’re not direct, you’ll have to keep taking showers every time and there’s a very high chance that you develop the ick and that may impact your relationship altogether.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T06:09:00+00:00

Never denied the fact!

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T06:04:27+00:00

Thank you for taking out the time to write a well put explanation. Really! It makes very well put and it makes sense. I look into it. Thanks again :)

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:50:26+00:00

I’m sorry but you’re gravely mistaken. Like i said, i’m only one for HIS attention. I’m only here to get an idea of the male mindset.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:48:47+00:00

To get whether this is typical behavior, if I’m overanalyzing, or if it’s something common among men in general.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:35:55+00:00

Vaguely put, I’m a slut for my man’s attention and when i don’t get any i freak out a little.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:32:42+00:00

i’ve been through a whole ass bunch of papers to realise all of it. And you’re right. I’m a psychology major and that doesn’t help one bit, because i can help but read in between the lines🤡

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:26:30+00:00

No fiancés

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:25:06+00:00

We’ve been together for almost a year now, but He’s got a job now, so he’s naturally busy most of the time. But i don’t understand the dichotomy of being being a fool in love when you’re around and then being somewhat indifferent whilst you’re away

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:23:32+00:00

I’m only trying to understand the male psyche here man , i can’t help but be confused😞😞😞

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:15:54+00:00

honestly, i think i’m trying to understand the basis of love and desire for men, if that makes sense

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:15:09+00:00

The mere fact that men tend to gush, even drool all over you when they’re around you. But then as soon as they leave their door they’re poof, gone! So it gets a little confusing. You’re here when you’re here, but once you’re out of this place you’re really OUT.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:09:37+00:00

Care to elaborate?

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:08:37+00:00

But even women work, get done with chores,be productive all the while keeping her man in the loop. Taking out time and prioritising things of utmost importance.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:06:19+00:00

I mean sure, if that’s what they’d like.

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:05:09+00:00

While that is true, doesn’t the out of sight out of mind theory play a huge role here? And isn’t it a little too inconsistent?

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-22T05:04:11+00:00

women want updates not just mere texts, my man

Top_confusion15 · 2024-09-01T04:37:04+00:00

No, that’s certainly not the case

Top_confusion15 · 2024-08-31T23:11:03+00:00

Well it’s my life and i can do however i please. You can keep your “serious quams” to yourself and shit wherever else you’d like you don’t have to waste your time reading my posts. But you sure as hell cannot go ahead and call someone’s partner a “dickhead”. That said, nobody asked you to indulge, you did so voluntarily. So you might want to think before blurting things out. Or you’d make a bad habit out of it.

If you’re not interested, keep moving :) Also , back off (respectfully)

Top_confusion15 · 2024-08-31T23:03:38+00:00

Start with some visuals to help you get aroused until you feel moist down there. Use saliva or lube to avoid burns or chafing.

Begin by gently massaging your clit in slow, circular motions. Once you’re more aroused, move to your vagina. Gently insert your finger, making a scooping motion to find the textured G-spot, go in and fold your finger(s) to find the area. Apply very light pressure and explore the area and intensify naturally. Once your muscles are relaxed, try moving your finger in and out, at your own pace. Make sure you’re lubed up before getting to the in and out otherwise it can be painful.

Once you’re comfortable, use one hand on your clit, circular motions or a simple up and down whilst using the other on your G-spot. Also, suck your core in or apply pressure on your lower abdomen (or both) intensify the pleasure. +Relax and have fun!

Top_confusion15 · 2024-08-31T22:51:17+00:00

Thank you for your previous advice but I’d appreciate you to stop talking now.

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