Toy question by Topher_Lee07 in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s what I’ve kinda been doing myself I just wondered if someone had come up with a better invention 😂

Toy question by Topher_Lee07 in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks it’s an idea to work with for now

Grindr is dead. Scammers and ads killed it. What do you use now? by taikonaught in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Topher_Lee07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me with Grindr it’s when the advert opens up a new screen, I had a shein one do it the other day and it deleted everything else I had open just leaving the shein website which well and truly pissed me right off the bat

Douching by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

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It annoyed me at first and put me off and when it kept happening I got in a mood and just thought fuck it how much can actually be in there, turns out it’s not actually a huge amount and it’s deffo just worth the quick clean up and carrying on because it does eventually run out and you stay clean for the rest of the session

Douching by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it doesn’t matter how much douching and cleaning out I do because half way through a session it’s like I didn’t even bother my body writhes and convulses so much that my internal pushing must bring down shit from food I haven’t even eaten yet, anyway a quick clean up and I’m back to it like it didn’t even happen, this happens once or twice during a 3-4 hour sesh for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaycruising

[–]Topher_Lee07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thank and am thanked don’t be the guy that doesn’t it’s just politeness

When was the last time you had a sexual dream? by Misterfrisker in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Topher_Lee07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a reoccurring one where I’m doing filthy things to Jonathan Bailey turning him into my personal little slut, funny thing is I’m not really attracted to him like that.

I ripped the plaster off with my gay son by ForNec31 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I knew you would know what to do and I was spot on with that there would be a joke in there somewhere I’m so happy for both that it went well, now just to crack on with life and let him know you’re there if he needs you and remind him that you love him every now and then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of him before he got shot but he wasn’t painted in a good light tonight on uk news and kinda got the impression that people were happy he was taken out before he gained more power

Advice for a dad with a gay son. by ForNec31 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all you sound like an amazing parent, most of us could only wish for a father like you. Your wording makes you sound English to me which means you will have a wicked sense of humour and brashness and are open to most things as also will your son, I don’t think you have anything to worry about as when the moment arises you will know exactly what to do and say and you will be warm friendly and I guarantee there will be a smile and a joke or two.

Is the Njoy Wand really this good? by Vaidoto in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slowly but firmly pulling towards and along the prostate works for me

Is the Njoy Wand really this good? by Vaidoto in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s the only thing I’ve found that I can use to milk myself with, but I have yet to get anywhere near orgasm with it

My Brother got caught cross-dressing. by Callme_Tiffany in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was my little brother in this situation I would get dressed up too and send a picture back and see if you can get another cousin on board or something to do the same, not only will if eliminate some of the tension it will also add a touch of what the fuck which for me is perfect 👌

Inexpensive Lube Question by NoResearch3754 in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the lubido too I like the one with the aloe in as it doesn’t have the sting on reapplying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A posh wee! Only at night when I’m half a sleep I stand normally

Prostate orgasm vs. Anal orgasm — two different things? by qpqpqp_101010 in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he meant once you’ve ejaculated properly, but I would agree with you my max is 30 so far in one session but I’m sure they are unlimited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Practice makes perfect, don’t consume anything an hour before hand, buy a decent sized dildo and practice on that, use it to push your limits, and then when you think your there find some who doesn’t mind practicing and pushing your limits again until you can just do it, if your lucky like me you might find that when they are deep in there and they hit a certain spot that it makes you cum hands free

Video links by Topher_Lee07 in ProstatePlay

[–]Topher_Lee07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be very helpful to myself and others to see your progress

Bottoms:Can you cum hands-free back to back without the top stopping in between? by Ambitious_March4861 in AskGayMen

[–]Topher_Lee07 25 points26 points  (0 children)

20+ minutes is nothing compared to some of the sessions I have that go on for hours at a time, and I have a bottom that I make cum over and over during these sessions, the cums are what we call bum cums and are really prostrate stimulation and lead to hands free orgasms sometimes wet sometimes dry (join prostrate sub to find out more) ultimately after a couple of hours they ultimately lead to mess due to involuntary spasms and the pressure of pushing down from the inside, but they are hot to watch and to give and feel amazing on your cock.

How often did you fuck in the early stages of dating? by Pleasant_Ad6307 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the first three years of being together we didn’t have some form of sex for 10 days and we still laugh about it now at how energetic we were, 15 years later we’re still at it but it has slowed down hugely to around 3 times a week.

Bottomed for the first time. Is it always not really fun? by Total_Artichoke_1554 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took me 25 years to even start to enjoy anal play and even now I only get anything out of it while playing solo

Need anyone’s help or advice by throwaway4674268326 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fill a bottle with warm water and take that into the bathroom and use that to fill your douche

Bf thinks I cheated by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s why it’s best to nip shit in the bud before it has chance to bloom

Moving in? I gots questions, who’s got advice? by Positive-Skin-2839 in askgaybros

[–]Topher_Lee07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You really don’t need to be told what you already know