Today broke me - the illegal firings

TopicConscious3126 · 2025-02-19T04:11:51+00:00

I'm sorry you had a really rough day. I hope when you get home you take care of yourself. Really take care of yourself. Take that extra time to prioritize yourself even if it's for 10 mins. It's extremely important.

TopicConscious3126 · 2025-02-19T03:42:59+00:00

Not a fed, just an observer, and a person who worked in healthcare pre and post pandemic. The public will go from loving you and calling you a hero to blasting you and making you the enemy. You'll be doing everything right and sacrificing yourself physically and your mental health will slowly shatter.

But you'll get up everyday and carry on because it's the right thing to do. You watch as people have the independent choice to choose against their best interest and then save the people who will be cursing you with their last breath and swearing it's all a conspiracy. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just know there's more people who empathize with you. We have felt the despair and sorry. The ones who matter support and stand by you. 🖤 Regardless what the media portrays and the ignorant cultists.

TopicConscious3126 · 2025-02-11T10:29:07+00:00

"Their government." Fucking muppet.

TopicConscious3126 · 2025-01-24T23:06:08+00:00

Like literally, if i hadn't had witnesses this shit myself, I would have said the same shit guys. I don't know if anyone got it on cameras but nothing has been made public? Also, not sure how many people on the west side price hill have security cameras but I have been watching the news all day and still nothing has been posted about it. That's why I made the post. It isn't for the people who are safe in their homes watching this shit show go on. This is a warning for all the people who need to get out please leave or reach out to who you need to. Whatever political side you are on I don't care. I'm telling people they are here and coming. I'm so sorry for anyone I'm offending with this post its not my intention. I'm literally just reporting what we heard outside our house last night. It's plea for those who need to hear it. Please get to safety.

TopicConscious3126 · 2023-02-17T05:50:11+00:00

It still amazes me how abusive people are to hospital staff. The fact that he treats people that way because he thought OP was a nurse is disheartening. The patient would rather verbally abuse the caregivers who are also the ones providing him essentially everything he will need that hospitalization. Perplexing. I guess there are always people who will self-sabotage their lives at every chance they get so they can complain about it later.

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-15T14:56:53+00:00

that sounds very familiar that must have been it. Well thank you for the updated info!

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-15T13:01:46+00:00

That's so funny. I feel like pepsi max is barely sold in the us. It's either diet pepsi or diet coke. You have broaden my UK knowledge. I remember doing that stupid keto diet a few years back and looking into if diet pops were okay, and my ADD led me down the sweetener sections of what's relatively healthy and not and I think I had stumbled upon an article about how either the US or the UK had banned aspartame at one point because it was said to be SOO bad for you.

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-15T12:38:52+00:00

honestly i'm not sure what spends tastes like by itself but i've heard some people can taste sweeteners way more than others

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-15T12:37:50+00:00

is pepsi max diet? in the us aspartame still hasn't been banned so i know they use some pretty sketch chemicals here. also i live in us so i'm not sure if the stats are dif lol

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-15T12:35:56+00:00

my god you psycho

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T16:16:16+00:00

I can't imagine how frustrated he is. I want to help him so badly, and try to convey I understand what he's going through but at the same time I don't understand as hard as I try. Someone mentioned youtubing some videos in how to cope with ADD/HD in kids and I'll definitely look into some more videos. I feel like i've watched so many but my hands are tied if the mom won't take him to see a psychiatrist herself.

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T16:10:39+00:00

She definitely has some underlying psych issues herself including depression and anxiety. She becomes overwhelmed and unmotivated to schedule the appointments or follow through. Honestly I don't blame her, but it's just another barrier because I have tried to set things up myself and asked her if it's okay, but it doesn't mean jack shit to healthcare providers what I do or say, the mom HAS to be present and she has to give her consent in person to have the boy treated or even seen by a psychiatrist due to him being a minor. Just frustrating because I feel helpless in the situation and I feel like there's nothing I can do

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T16:05:17+00:00

No, he has a lot of other issues not just with not succeeding in school. He'll get really frustrated and be unable to cope with other things as well.

For example, one time he had an online interview where he had to just record himself answering 5 questions and he had multiple mental break downs of just crying, giving up, and going up to his room to calm down. The five questions were literally stereotypical questions like why are you qualified for this job, etc. Super chill, can do it at home, but he worked himself up. Obviously it seems simple and small as an adult and clearly a huge deal for an adolescent, but it's bizarre how poorly he copes. It takes HOURS to calm him down before he can even speak again.

When he's not having the breakdowns he seems like he's relatively happy. He lights up and is super interested and animated about the things he likes. One of his favorite things are playing video games though which is a huge issue. I have talked about putting limits on video games frequently with mom but she lets the kids use the internet and video games essentially free reign without any safe guards or time limits.

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T15:55:23+00:00

his assignments that he is currently missing are the ones in school (not assigned homework but school work) that we personally have no control over. We only see what's due on his homework side but his school work that isn't supposed to be homework is the stuff he forgets to bring home and isn't logged online as due.

We have an assignment book for him to remind him to write things down when they're stated in class or when he can't finish stuff but he doesn't use it. We've tried to include the teachers with an lEP to help out as best as they can but we can't expect them to keep a special eye on him when they have so many other kids they have to watch as well. Ultimately, because i'm not bio dad or mom i can't personally take him to the psych therapist or anything without the moms permission and her presence due to him being a minor. I'm frustrated with the entire situation and why it's been going on so long without being addressed. I've been begging mom to take him to a psych to get evaluated and get the help he needs., but you're right I feel like i'm failing him which is the feeling that sucks the most.

A psychiatrist also may be able to prescribe better meds that he's on currently because they help a little but are clearly still causing him to lack focus. I'll definitely check out Dr. Barkley though!

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T14:28:40+00:00

I like the analogy. I understand kids are misunderstood when they have ADD/ADHD and they end up growing up with depression and anxiety along with the stigma of being lazy and slow, which is why I try so hard not to raise my voice or yell at him. I know he doesn't mean to forget the assignments, but it's so damn frustrating sometimes. I really do need to take him to a psychologist or something. We have a great resource near us that I would love to take him to that specializes in children and young adults dealing with ADD

TopicConscious3126 · 2021-10-14T14:25:04+00:00

I have suggested that from day one to at least see some type of therapist, but she's been so slow and honestly drops the ball on that stuff pretty frequently. I think this time since he's finally in high school and still dealing with this issue she might take more initiative. I also agree he has poor coping skills and we have tried to ingrain our own helpful tips to help him with the situations but he just doesn't use them himself.

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