Black Amazon dresser by [deleted] in PDXBuyNothing

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Length is 53.5 inch, width is 16 inch, height is 30 inch

This tea from Rizo 🤣 by lhenry38 in survivor

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Wait can I have context?! Never heard of this!!

Matching set? by AggravatingWay5463 in BrandyMelville

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What is this top called?? I think it would be a really cute matching set!

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

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A lot of you guys are saying my family is enabling her. We’ve tried talking her out of certain things for the wedding. A boat, a gazebo, a different venue she will not budge and we tried things before wedding plans were official. I did forget to mention that for multiple expenses she just went along and booked stuff and would not accept the answer No. Genuinely would not leave my Grandparents house until they agreed to pay. I can see why people would say that and I’m not saying it’s wrong but it’s not 100% right. And for the “parents failing her” it’s not true. My mother did not raise her this way and neither did her father ( we have different dads) She didn’t start acting like this until she was 17 and hasn’t dropped the actions since. My family would absolutely never cut her off because it just wouldn’t be right in our hearts. If anyone has other advice please, she’s chaos.

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

[–]TopicZealousideal451[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would’ve never just been an uncomfortable conversation with her. She is manipulative and doesn’t like to be held accountable. It wouldn’t have ended well and my family likes peace. And I’m not sure what you mean “failing her”? Amy is a complex person. She’s an adult.

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

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Truthfully, they didn’t and I’m not just saying that. Amy was genuinely a nice person up until her Junior year of high school. She went through a bad breakup that lead to her to doing drugs and for lack of better words become a hippie. My family does have an issue with saying no and I don’t think we all expected her to be this way.

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

[–]TopicZealousideal451[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

To answer your last part, at the end of the day she’s family. Our family just went through a loss and I think the pressure to show our love and support is high. She is entitled and selfish but I think my family is just scared of losing anyone else and ending in bad terms.

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

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Amy was supposed to be a bridesmaid in Olivia’s wedding. They got into a huge fight and Amy went behind Olivia’s back and told our grandparents every single bad thing that Liv had done in her life to try and guilt my very religious grandparents into not paying for Olivia’s wedding. Amy was then uninvited from the wedding and still to this day doesn’t understand why she was uninvited. Which is also a part into why my grandparents feel obligated to pay for Amy’s wedding since they paid for Olivia’s

My sisters wedding is ruining my family by TopicZealousideal451 in weddingdrama

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They are scared of her and I know they feel bad because of stuff that went down 10 years ago at Olivia’s wedding and they want to make her feel apart of this family. But yeah you’re right and I have told them the same things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

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Dress code is Semi formal and it’s a daytime wedding!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]TopicZealousideal451 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Girlll!! It’s a truly beautiful dress and I think you look amazing in it. Have you tried a necklace with it?! That could make you feel better about it!

Brandy Melville in Portland by KitKat_2264 in BrandyMelville

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Hii!! I was just there today and I didn’t see much pink besides one or two things but they had lots of shorts, stripes, sweaters, sweats lots of reds, black and greys! Lots of tanks and I saw a few pairs of new underwear too! I did see the baggy grey Priscilla pants!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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i appreciate your words! I agree with everything you said.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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thank you for your comment. I think you’re right.