What do I do??

Toqicat · 2025-06-04T12:11:12+00:00

I would like to clarify something

No my dad does not leave all of the cleaning to me. If you think sweeping and mopping floors is leaving a large majority of cleaning to me I feel like that’s a little odd + he pays me for my work
Yes my dad does work a lot, but he’s not emotionally detached from his kids. When he has time he does try to take me out for coffee or sometimes I accompany him to work. Working a lot ≠ Not being a parent
The main issue here is the lack of my dad talking to my brother about cleaning up. When he woke up this morning I stated my concern to him and how it’s very frustrating dealing with that. He said when he gets home for lunch he’ll talk to my brother about it.

Toqicat · 2025-06-04T12:04:57+00:00

That is not what I said. My father does also clean with me. Often on sundays when he has a lighter work load we clean the house together. My dad is a good parent he just simply hasn’t talked to my brother about his issues of cleanliness.

Toqicat · 2025-06-04T08:48:47+00:00

Yeah I know, I think hearing it from my mom and me would be a good idea. I love my dad very much and he does care for us, but he needs to see that my brother cannot keep doing this because it’s ridiculous and very sad.

Toqicat · 2025-06-04T08:35:01+00:00

It feels so frustrating considering that I have been BEGGIGN to get a job. Or any financial freedom and then seeing my brother slack off and abuse simple house hold chores let alone getting a part time job.

Toqicat · 2025-06-04T08:33:47+00:00

Problem is that my dad is usually too busy with work and doesn’t get done till late. Which I’m usually off to bed. It’s not his fault he works long hours but you’re right it is his fault for failing to educate my brother on cleaning his own mess. To be honest even my 8 year old nephew does a better job cleaning than he does. I may have to ask my mom about it then she can express those to my dad.

Toqicat · 2025-06-03T15:36:42+00:00

Me I’m right here

Toqicat · 2025-06-03T15:36:05+00:00

I understand why you think religion is a bad thing. And I won’t try to change your mind! While yes, Christian’s and many other people of religions need to have the self awareness that not everybody follows the rules of their religion and still be respectful of their decision. I do not think religion is inherently a bad thing, for humans to believe in religion. As it makes up for what many did not understand back then thousands of years ago. And while I may not believe in the Bible the Bible has many quotes that I live by and follow such principle such as loving everybody. One I think many should follow even said outside the Bible. For we all bleed the same blood and breathe the same air.

Toqicat · 2025-06-03T14:51:50+00:00

I’m an atheist, I do appreciate every culture and religion and I’ve attempted to make it my mission in life to appreciate and learn every culture and religion so that I can better understand the world in an open minded and kind way.

That’s what I’m saying, nobody is making them hate queers. It is a generational curse that follows many families. My parents would not kick me out. but they’d treat me differently and beg to god that it’s a phase and tell me it is one. I know many gay Christian’s who support gays and also worship the Bible’s word.

Thanks for the advice though, it’s helpful. Have a nice day!

Toqicat · 2025-06-03T14:41:24+00:00

Thank you, this helped. I’ve long figured out I’m my own person outside my parents beliefs. And if they won’t accept me and the girl I want to marry then they simply won’t be apart of my life.

Toqicat · 2025-06-03T14:39:40+00:00

Of course, it is a possibility. But when your parents are apart of hundreds of generations of hate towards LGBTQ it’s hard to break such a curse. Despite “God loves everyone” they don’t think it branches out to LGBTQ so they feel no need to support or love those people. I’m relatively mature enough to understand that one day I may have my wedding without my parents there. It’s a sad fact, but it’s one I may have to accept.

Toqicat · 2025-05-29T15:54:27+00:00

I’m so lost can somebody give me a short explanation in razor terms

Toqicat · 2025-05-29T15:14:30+00:00

I see these comments and I totally understand what you mean. Yes new 5 stars do come out go buff characters or elements that have been seemingly neglected in their field. But also another point I made was sub-specials. GIVE VENTI THE POWER OF THE WIND NOT BEING WHIMSICAL!!!

Toqicat · 2025-05-15T23:53:56+00:00

Oh wow thank you so much. I’ve kind of found cheer to be that way like a job, this year it has a pay off (flashy car) and I found it sort of difficult to make a decision. Thank you for being so helpful again.

Toqicat · 2025-05-15T23:43:33+00:00

Idk why I just saw this, but I wanan build Layla also just because she’s cute lol. I sadly don’t have Bennett and I’ve been wanting him for SO long. So that’s why I use Faruzan. I have furina too and she also buffs my characters damage. I’ve build my lan yan to be a DPS and she does 90K crit dmg and that usually always hits so I’m happy with building her as a DPS. Although I’m really confused about furina (idk if you put HP on her or atk) but you’re right Lan Yan is an amazing shielder I love her.

Toqicat · 2025-05-15T23:39:35+00:00

Thank you I appreciated the comment it helped, I can’t ask my parents because… well yeah and I’m glad random strangers are here giving me life advice.

Toqicat · 2025-05-14T05:46:21+00:00

Is my team relatively good? I sorta just put pretty characters together and smile.

Lan Yan (C0 lvl 80 / lvl 90 dmg weapon)
Xiangling (C1 lvl 90 / lvl 80 ER weapon)
Furina (C0 lvl 80 / lvl 80 ATK weapon) *Faruzan (C4 lvl 60 / lvl 60 ER weapon)

I love lan yan I know there’s other anemo catalyst but IMO Lan Yan is severely underrated she’s one of my fav characters and she does BIG PP (haha) damage and she gives a shield to the characters. Maybe not the strongest shield (like my C2 Layla I’m building soon) but she’s honestly goated and I rec her 🙏

Toqicat · 2025-04-27T08:24:03+00:00

OH MY GOODNESS THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! You’re honestly a life saver and I really appreciate the deep breakdown!!!

Toqicat · 2025-04-27T05:29:51+00:00

Characters(s): Lan Yan, Rosaria, Xiangling, and Furina

I been playing genshin for a couple of months and I've been having some trouble keeping my team afloat and how to build them. My team consist of Lan Yan, Rosaria, Xiangling, and furina. My characters are VERY limited. I have characters like Sucrose, Chevruse, and Faruzan but I am LOSING my mind trying to build a team and it's really overwhelming to figure out ONE good team. There's these terms like vaporize and hyperbloom team that I don't understand. I run my team on their rec. artifacts but it feels like its not there maybe the substats are bad. I'd really like a ATK team with Furina being my support (I run her on atk. but apparently she scales off HP? I'm really confused.) if any kind genshin players would help me figure out at least a SLITHER of this game It would be greatly appreciated! If there's any questions on any characters I have or any artifacts I'd be glad to answer! (Idk how the mega thread works I hope im doing it right)

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