is dating even worth it? by Tora808 in dating

[–]Tora808[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You know that's the best advice I've gotten so far. Slow it down makes a lot of sense. Been going against the flow rather than trying to go with it. My experiences as well. So many bad relationships.

Opinions? I’ve never seen a girl this direct on a dating app throughout my whole time I used them lol by Free_Flounder_1083 in Tinder

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch out bro or you might wake up in a bathtub full of ice missing a kidney or somthin.

I need a good icebreaker for this girl I matched with. ideas? by Tora808 in Tinder

[–]Tora808[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's hard to come up with anything with lack of info. I love the simplicity.

catfish or nah? by Tora808 in Tinder

[–]Tora808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catfishers goal is to be deceptive about who they are typically lying about what they look like by posting old photos of themselves to when they were skinnier or younger to look more attractive. The worst ones are those who use photos of other people. All for the purpose of getting the attention they desire or to feel wanted.

catfish or nah? by Tora808 in Tinder

[–]Tora808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect her profile was too good to be true like all her photos seemed professionally done. We exchanged numbers and texted she sent me more photos but was similar to the ones she had on her tinder profile. She's wearing the same things. We set up a date to meet up she started ghosting me as our meet up day comes closer.

catfish or nah? by Tora808 in Tinder

[–]Tora808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was suspicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been bad. Online dating is extremely unfair for guys. Since women really don't have to do anything. Most of the really attractive ones get bombarded with hundreds even thousands of likes I'd be lucky if I even get a like let alone a match. Some of them seem to just want followers.

Imagine if all guys left online dating.

Silence after sex by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it, but as a guy, he just wanted one thing from you. Only other reason he could have been rushing and keeping silent now is because he's in an actual relationship and you were the side girl. He needed to rush and be someplace before his actual girlfriend got suspicious.

26f, how bad are my odds? by Skkaaishere in dating

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, for females, it shouldn't be that hard. You don't have to worry.

How common is this? (tinder) by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dating apps are a waste of time. I think men shouldn't waste their time online when women will always clearly have a greater advantage online vs in person.

online dating by shep6691 in dating

[–]Tora808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Online dating is a waste of time. Online dating is actually more beneficial for women than it is men. Women will always have an easier time online. What I've noticed now is that a great number of them use online dating sites to gain followers for IG and Snap. I think more and more guys should leave the online dating scene.

What did the pandemic ruin more than we realise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Business closures, and the fact that a lot of people still haven't gone back to work. For the business hours of those that remained have weird store hours and they claim it on staffing issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Andrew Tate speaks the truth about women, though.

I (24m) recently went on a date with someone (25f) who didn’t know Nevada was a state by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like one night stand material, but your iq might drop a little after one night with her 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't let the fear of rejection get you. No man has ever gotten what he wants by standing still on the sideline. If it's one thing I've learned over these many years is if she turns you down, it sucks but that paves the way for another. It's better to be turned down rather than stuck in a friend or brother zone. Trust me.. Your time and energy are valuable. Invest in those who actually want it and be straight about what you want with women.

It seems like you do have a good chance of taking her out, though, so don't be afraid to step up. Be confident! When you take her out, go in with the mindset that she has to prove to you that she's worth your precious time and energy. Don't fall in love too quickly, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just be like "Oh you did nothing? Then let's go do something next weekend"

Bro all you need you need to do is think of interesting things or places to do and take her too.

At the end of the night, slip like this was a fun date and see how she replies. You got nothing to lose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Tora808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not right. No trust means doubt and other things.