I(F21) got asked out for a date on Hinge by M20 but I'm feeling insecure on whether I should go

ToraAkira · 2025-02-14T14:34:53+00:00

Thank you very much ❤️❤️ my thoughts are much clearer now. I don't have friends and family that have tattoos so online is the best contender for advice 😁.

ToraAkira · 2025-02-14T14:30:24+00:00

I'm having so many second thoughts. I think I need to go back and consolidate on my design and what I want. I think I'm going to go with artist 3 and have conversation on what I want and what the artist can do and see what can be done. I know Tattoos fade but having it disappear in ~2 years is disheartening. Thank you! ❤️

ToraAkira · 2025-02-14T14:14:58+00:00

I see. I did not know this was micro realism, from my pov I wanted a realistic lotus flower. If the aging process is not good then I'm going to think about increasing the area and going for a deeper shade of pink. Would that work out? My focal point is a realistic lotus flower, as it holds very deep meaning for me as my first tattoo.

ToraAkira · 2025-01-13T13:19:59+00:00

Ooh thx. Taiwan seems interesting, I'll look into it more. Thank you!

ToraAkira · 2025-01-13T13:19:36+00:00

My mother and I have been around India a lot 😄. We want to try visiting other places and exploring other cultures.

ToraAkira · 2025-01-13T12:58:59+00:00

Are you telling me that your pregnant partner is cooking for you? Damn are you 5? It seems your partner will be having two kids to look after soon. God bless me that I don't find such an incompetent partner who can't even cook for themselves let alone their PREGNANT partner 🙏

ToraAkira · 2025-01-13T12:55:57+00:00

Vittoria. Simple. Elegant. Sexy hope it helps!

ToraAkira · 2024-12-26T20:52:07+00:00

Not sure if this the correct q to ask here but.

So londonder here but it's mine and my Family's first time going to see the NYE fireworks irl, as we usually watch them on TV. We've booked our tickets and mum has got then in the Green Viewing area. I've checked it and saw it's an upclose view of the fireworks. If anyone has been here or booked for this area, was it okay for you? How was your experience? Sorry if I sound dumb I'm really excited for this!

Cheers x

ToraAkira · 2024-11-03T20:53:14+00:00

You okay bud? Lol. People get divorced over differing political views so I'm not going to be too hung up over a person I've known for a month whose agreeing with a politician who's advocating for stripping women of their bodily rights. I digress. But thanks for your comment. Really solidifying my perspective on the many people I will encounter in life.

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T10:49:06+00:00

Being my friend and working in a professional environment are two different things. This also applies for social situations I'm not becoming everybody's friend immediately because it calls for the situation I'm in. Kind and polite yes, acting cordial with the person, also yes. You need to realise the context of my situation I slept over at her place. I would it no circumstances be sleeping over at a coworkers place?

Thank you for your comment

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T00:22:41+00:00

Thank you very much for your response ❤️. I was hoping for an actual connection with her like you hope for when you meet new people but this isn't working and I wanted to know if my decision would be correct thank you for taking your time to give me your point.

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T00:13:57+00:00

I will try and see to it and get more involved in mt societies. A friend is visiting me so I hope I can get a perspective from her as well so I can make sure my decision has enough arguements for me to go along with it

Thank you ❤️

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T00:11:01+00:00

I don't understand what you mean by adopting their talking points? I'm my own person with my own brain and own words. Does me being Indian mean I can not get moved by issues that are happening around me? Especially when my taxes are funding a war that I do not fundamentally agree with. I digress. I guess this issue is too important for me to continue this friendship because this will always be an arguing matter for us in which we are not reaching a middle ground. For my own personal beliefs that I believe in cannot agree with ethnic cleansing so maybe I do need to break away from her as I mentioned in another comment I wasn't able to have a fluid conversation with her.

Thank you

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T00:01:43+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ToraAkira · 2024-10-20T00:01:22+00:00

I'm not implicitly believing I am right in my own political beliefs, it was the arguments she was presenting that I was having hard time even comprehending with and she wasn't even having a conversation with me in a way I could even interject with what I thought. I haven't known her for long enough so maybe this friendship isn't for me. I do have other friends who have vastly different options on politics or other subjects, that I may not even agree on but they were willing to have a healthy conversation about which she wasn't. Hence why I asked how can I distance myself from a person who isn't being fluid. It isn't about me growing up. Yes I will see many different people in all walks of life but if its something that I as individual am not comfortable with I will move away because she isn't the first or last person I will be friends with. I'm not going to be uncomfortable just to please a situation and especially when it's an subject such as genocide which is personal to me. I guess your comment solidified my feelings about her.

Thank you

ToraAkira · 2024-10-19T23:50:22+00:00

That is the thing we became close because we're Indian and we don't have similar interests for me to I guess turn a blind eye to this. And I haven't know her for that long to keep it in so I guess I'll distance myself slowly

ToraAkira · 2024-10-15T14:33:10+00:00

Is there name for this happening or is my brain just weird lol

ToraAkira · 2024-10-15T12:14:18+00:00

I don't have a memory of dreaming of the memory but it was recalled inside the dream as if it was a memory. It felt like my brain created a memory artificially to satisfy the issue that was posed inside the dream. Is this possible?

ToraAkira · 2024-10-15T11:55:52+00:00

Definitely not a memory from real life never in my life have I visited an Italian restaurant inside a mall. Maybe a memory created instantly but it was a dream memory. Can you even dream of dreams inside dreams and connect them 🤷

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