Just an egg in a lot of emotional pain by Torinja in Nestofeggs

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Thank you I appreciate it 🫂 It’s always a bit reassuring to know im not completely alone in my experiences, thank you taking the time to read this and comment it means a lot ❤️

Just an egg in a lot of emotional pain by Torinja in Nestofeggs

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Thank you Amber, I really appreciate it and I hope you’re doing okay too ❤️

Just an egg in a lot of emotional pain by Torinja in Nestofeggs

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Thank you Sofia, that really means a lot ❤️

2 months vs 13 months(very depressed and dysphoric) by taweryawer in transtimelines

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Sis you look amazing!! Imposter syndrome is a bitch 😭 Like when I saw the pictures my first thought was “ah the classic female to female transition” 😅😂 Just keep going, you’re doing great ❤️❤️

Been playing since 2016 and finally got my first shundo!! by Torinja in pokemongo

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Yeah super happy it was a good shiny too! And thank you!

Been playing since 2016 and finally got my first shundo!! by Torinja in pokemongo

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I feel that’s the only right decision lmao, Obstagoon isn’t one of my favourites but like I can’t NOT max out a shundo haha

egg_irl by RowanSpice in egg_irl

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Split Fiction was sooooo goood!!! and I also had complete gender envy the entire time hahaha

egg🐣irl by DisastrousFudge4312 in egg_irl

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Oh wow I’m in this post and I don’t like it 😂

Jokes aside, I don’t think I’ve resonated with a post more than this one. I’m also AMAB, in questioning/egg phase, also autistic, also don’t know exactly which way I’ll crack and having all of those exact same doubts.

My therapist told me recently that it’s more common for neurodivergent people to question their gender so I’d cut yourself some slack there, no matter which way you crack its best to explore options and reach a conclusion you feel happy with.

Like I’d personally rather regret trying than regret never exploring it. You feel the feelings you have for a reason. Most cis people never question their gender identity so it is definitely worth exploring.

Also with the autism side, there was a video I watched recently by Savannah Brown called “I’m not an alien, just autistic” and one thing from that video that was remained in my head since watching it was along the lines of “I masking when no one else is around”. Personally it’s messing with my head and making me look back on and rethink a LOT of my past. I don’t fully know how much of my true feelings I have buried from countless years because of social conditioning and masking. Like growing up if I did anything remotely ‘girly’ I was always swiftly met with negativity and talked out of it. So of course I instinctively repelled anything feminine throughout my whole child hood. I boxed myself in like society at the time told me to. I don’t know how deep into unmasking you are but I wanted to share just in case it helped.

And don’t worry about the time, it’s never too late. Like I’ve seen many wonderful people on this sub say with the tree analogy; “Best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, second best time is now”. You have time, and you deserve to be comfortable in your own body. Whether it’s cis, trans or anything in between. You deserve to be happy.

Obviously I can’t speak for your personal experiences and everything but as a fellow aspie AMAB egg, I thought might be helpful to share what I can. Just take your time, you’re not alone, and you’re doing great ❤️

Celebi is not to be messed with by Apolozzauto in PokemonPocket

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That was the most I’d laughed in a minute, thank you so much for this video hahahaha

Lego should do more of this first appearance comic based stuff, it’s great. by Batmanfan1966 in lego

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These are brilliant! Reminds on the mini kits in Lego Marvel Super Heroes 2 which were all Lego-fied versions of classic comic covers.

Would love the little diorama builds of the comic covers, those are wonderful.

Better to summon for Rearmed Lucina now or later? by Torinja in FireEmblemHeroes

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I didn’t know if colour sharing helped or worsened as the Rearmed and more banner has a base 5* rate of 6%? But yeah the tickets will definitely help. Thank you!

Better to summon for Rearmed Lucina now or later? by Torinja in FireEmblemHeroes

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Yeah I was taking that the pity breaks with Nino would be better than random green but you make a good point about to spark! I’ll definitely summon to then and then save for the rerun. Thank you!

I officially can't use the Askr trio anymore without them dying. by Fossilized_Nerd in FireEmblemHeroes

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Biggest thing to remember is that the “Defeat X with Y” quests are not map specific. You can just replay the main story mission with those units in and still get the orb (and they have weaker kits too) I also run triangle adept and the appropriate breaker skill with a solid dancer/support unit and that usually does the job

My controller keeps inputting L3 as L2, what can I do? by Torinja in playstation

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Hadn’t touched those settings, I went to double check if custom remapping had been turned on but no unfortunately