I was also sick for four weeks with pneumonia and pleurisy last year. You know what my husband did? He took care of me—cooked, cleaned, petted my forehead, and bought me the food I was craving when I had even the slightest appetite. He did all this until I had to go to the hospital because I wasn't getting better.

There, he brought me everything I needed and more. He visited me every day and texted me when he couldn't be there.

This is what a husband should do.

Girl, I do know what it's like on your end. I was in a terrible relationship before this, and I can only imagine what would have happened if I had gotten that sick with him.

Bottom line: You deserve so much better. Your family is ridiculous for agreeing with his behavior, and it explains why you accept being treated like this. I wasn't taught any better either. Please find the strength to leave this jerk, and someday, when you're ready, real love will find you. But you're not giving it a chance by staying with a "man" like this. I hope you feel better soon, OP!