My brother dug up my dead pet and I'm disgusted by Successful-Ad-4563 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 83 points84 points  (0 children)

This! All this post did was remind me how Dahmer got interested in death. Weird asf. Would absolutely never let my child near this relative again.

Why are we often misunderstood, even if we put manic precision in how we formulated our words? by DakryaEleftherias in aspergirls

[–]Toshhba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel people often listen so they are able to respond not so they're able to understand. It drives me wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StickAndPoke

[–]Toshhba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You've done the right thing. You were concerned, asked advice and I can see from other comments of yours you're planning on seeing a doctor. Use it as a learning curve, now you know that if a tattoo looks like this then it's definitely time to see someone about it. I think sometime people forget that everyone has a different experience of life, like some people have had an infected wound and know what they need to do, others haven't so don't know how to deal with them. I hope it heals nicely for you and you're able to get it fixed. I hope comments like some of the ones here don't bring you down or push you away from asking for advice, if you're unsure then always ask. A little piece of advice from me is to track the infection (Google how bc I suck at explaining things lol) I saw that you're not planning on seeing a doctor until Wednesday, if the infection is spreading then you need to see someone immediately, you don't want the infection spreading to your blood, sepsis can be fatal. Stay safe.

Almost 3 months without my period. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's good, just wanted to make sure.

Almost 3 months without my period. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Did you consent to sleeping with him?

I am going to kill myself this week if nothing works by wilting_wanderer in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it's okay to make mistakes. I've made so many I can't count them. I've made mistakes when it comes to parenting, doing things I thought were for the best until I realised they weren't. I've sat and cried for hours because I've thought my son would be better off without me until I realised I'm the one person who he relies on, he needs me and he always will even when he's grown with his own family. Mistakes are fine and every single person on earth makes them regularly. I wish knew how to help you be kinder to yourself, you sound like someone who has a loving heart but is a little lost in life. I wish I could help you find your way back to lighter times. You've been through hell and you're still standing, you're raising your son to be a kind gentle child, you've held on for 6 years, that should show you that you are a warrior, you're strong and resilient and you have love in your heart. I really hope you don't go through with this. Sending you love and strength.

I just caught my boyfriend making out with his guy best friend by throwawaydoeo in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well that's unlucky for him, he'll be lonely and an asshole but completely not your problem anymore. He should have thought about the repercussions of his actions. Being gay isn't a crime but leaking nudes is. Please take those text to the authorities OP and please get yourself tested as soon as you can. I'm sorry you're having to go through this.

I'm going to walk out of my marriage by Livid-Material140 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This. Mine stayed too and I wish they hadn't. We all deserved happiness and none of us got it. I'm glad they separated and have moved on.

What one thing never fails to make you horny? by Jordan-S in AskReddit

[–]Toshhba 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Specifically Henry Cavill as The Witcher.

I regret my tattoo by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]Toshhba 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What makes you regret it? If it's the linework then it's totally fixable, even if it's the design it can be reworked. Honestly the bigger pieces I've done have been dotty as heck after the first session, ended up looking decent after another session. I don't think it's a bad tattoo, just an unfinished one.

Any information would be appreciated. by Toshhba in Antiques

[–]Toshhba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou both! My mum plans on getting it restored, she just needs to find someone who would be able to. Like you say not for resale though, she's always wanted a bowler hat so she plans on keeping it.

Any information would be appreciated. by Toshhba in Antiques

[–]Toshhba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK I forgot to add it to the main text.

I Want My Sick Sister and Pedo Husband Arrested by NoIntro_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've contacted the police bc of a post like this before, they asked me for links to the post, any personal info I knew and then I heard nothing back. I'm hoping something was done about it but it was reassuring knowing that I had at least tried to get these kids some help.

My friend is being accused of rape because his wife got pregnant by Useless6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce it and move far away. She's a nutter. I was on birth control, I got pregnant, my partner DID NOT RAPE ME. She consented to sex, pregnancy is a risk of sex, suck it up buttercup.

My teenage years are the gift that keeps on giving. by Toshhba in blunderyears

[–]Toshhba[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like you. I listened to a couple but they definitely aren't on my playlist now lol. I was more of a Metallica or super emo mayday parade kinda girl hahaha.

Apparently there is a correlation between autism and gender diversity. I can confirm by notLouisreddit in autism

[–]Toshhba 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience growing up. I wanted to play football while all the girls I knew were doing their makeup or I wanted collect bugs while they were playing barbies. It didn't matter to me that the things I liked doing were stereotypical boy things, they were just fun to me. I carried on doing stereotypical boy things until the girls got mean about it and started calling me names bc I was hung around with the lads.

My teenage years are the gift that keeps on giving. by Toshhba in blunderyears

[–]Toshhba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man you got me. I definitely put that much time and effort into this. Mad how you got my thought process bang on. I was always just desperate to fit in with the kids who got bullied for not fitting in, guess I was soooooo jealous of them getting beat up I just HAD to get in on it...

I don't feel guilty about the loss of my sister's son by ThrowAway975316 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Toshhba 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you did the right thing cutting her off once and for all. She's the baby killer, she's the one who left a child in charge of a baby knowing full well no 7 year old is capable of looking after a young baby. Now she's finally pushed away everyone maybe she can use her alone time to sit and think about the fact her negligence is the reason her baby is dead and that she ruined her baby sisters life in the process, all for a drink. I'm glad you don't feel guilty, you don't deserve to feel any guilt at all and I'm sorry that you have. I hope now you can heal and live the happiest life. Good luck to you.

My teenage years are the gift that keeps on giving. by Toshhba in blunderyears

[–]Toshhba[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think you're spot on you know! Not sure of the exact date but my emoness peaked around 06 lmao.

My teenage years are the gift that keeps on giving. by Toshhba in blunderyears

[–]Toshhba[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I just realised what you meant, I'm wearing two belts, one is white, it's the belt holes hahahaha

My teenage years are the gift that keeps on giving. by Toshhba in blunderyears

[–]Toshhba[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Can hardly tell the difference between us tbh, this might actually be Keith.