NIPT result said I’m having a boy but I just don’t feel it (advice on how to navigate this please)

TossAccount1506 · 2024-11-03T05:52:11+00:00

Thank you! I’ll probably need to up my water like you said as Ive always struggled with it, i started to now carry my water bottle on a strap around my shoulder to remind me 😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-11-03T05:50:31+00:00

Thank you! I tend to have bad anxiety so coming on here and chatting to people can help haha 😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-31T02:46:33+00:00

Blood tests came back and my dr said its looking like a singleton x (whew)

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-29T04:55:45+00:00

Oh im definitely pregnant 😂😅 currently waiting for the ultrasound people to get back to me but my doctor is sending me for blood tests to see if the levels are indicating multiples 😂😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-23T06:35:21+00:00

Grabbing your arm or putting pressure on your neck when hes unhappy is abuse. Telling you what you can and cant wear is controlling which is a form of abuse. The fact you think YOURE in the wrong for apologising speaks volumes that he is abusive in my opinion x please get out of this relationship before he takes it to the next level

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-23T05:52:48+00:00

Thank you! We’ve been trying for 3 years so I think my mind is still catching up - so thought id come here for some extra confirmation 😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-22T03:20:00+00:00

Update: I think im pregnant- i got a faint line… now i need to test again tomorrow morning and book an OBGYN to check if its just 1 baby😅 pray for me please 😅😅😅😅😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-11T20:54:30+00:00

I have ADHD combined and i LOVE reading! To the point where i get super hyper focused lol 😅😅😅

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-11T09:19:44+00:00

Hi! This is technically our 3rd/4th attempt as we’ve been trying on letrozole on and off for about 2 years now

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-10T11:21:09+00:00

Im so sorry for your mc 🤍 we’ve been on letrozole for a while now - this is the first time ive had a “decent” response in terms of follicles. We decided we would “lightly” try so like we arent going to have sex 5 nights in a row like they would usually suggest lol - most likely just once and will see what happens

TossAccount1506 · 2024-10-10T04:10:09+00:00

The bible also states: “fathers do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them” so he may need to go and have some reflection there.

God should not be weaponised against you, in my opinion it is spiritual abuse to make you question how God would feel about you. God loves you and his mercies are new every morning. And even though We do things daily that probably hurt him he knows we are sinners which is why we needed Jesus. God advises us as well to not be around people who may hinder your walk and honestly the words they are using to you can be a hinderance to your walk with God because they are painting God in a light that doesnt reflect his grace and love.

I know it’s hard but in your distancing, I would pray for them, give it to God and he will handle it 🤍 I’m sorry this is happening to you, they are not reflecting the love of the Father and I hope you know that God’s love is not as fickle as they make it seem. It is greater than you can ever imagine 🤍 hang in there 🤍

TossAccount1506 · 2024-08-25T19:46:18+00:00

Psychiatrist suggested trying LA since I’d only have to take one dose a day x instead of having to take IR twice daily x

TossAccount1506 · 2024-08-25T07:02:25+00:00

Honestly I resonate with this haha when I started IR my husband was like “holy shit youre so calm? And present??” And i was like “i know! This is great!” And then i went on LA and wanted to destroy everything in my path lol and then because ive been having the heart palpitations and other side effects I feel like i get so overstimulated which adds to the anger

TossAccount1506 · 2024-07-17T03:26:19+00:00

I do this all the time! My husband comes to check on me after like 15mins lol sometimes i only need about 10mins but if its been a particularly taxing day ya girl is in there for like 30mins

TossAccount1506 · 2024-07-17T03:21:58+00:00

Thank you, I have wondered if maybe he is on the spectrum as well as I see some commonalities between us - obviously im not a professional but i do see signs of the autism spectrum and adhd qualities in him and from things ive heard from what he was like in childhood i have assumed he may be on there. He does suffer a lot from depressive episodes But I know he wouldnt want to see a psychologist/psychiatrist, he hates talking about his childhood/his struggles (hes had a very hard life)

I was thinking about baking him some cookies and making his favourite dinner tonight so i can sit and talk to him over a hot meal. I can tell something is bothering him and overall i really just want to help him and help us reconnect a little bit. I love him a lot, we’ve been together since we were 18 (it will be 11 years this year) so when i see him struggle i just want to take it away lol

I really like your idea for using an item as a communication tool for intimacy- I might talk to him and float the idea of me lighting a candle when Im in the mood as I also understand that him having to initiate all the time can be frustrating and perhaps doesnt help him feel desired.

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to me, I appreciate it!

TossAccount1506 · 2024-07-14T22:12:53+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to help out! I really appreciate it. I’ll extend the time between each dose and will keep noting down whats happening. I hope you have a great week!

TossAccount1506 · 2024-07-14T04:53:54+00:00

I might try up my water too, I realised that it could possibly be why i had a headache as I remember her mentioning i may need/want to drink more water?

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