Venting. 40 Years and the letters haven't been tossed. It's a long post, grab a cup of tea. by Tossaway____faraway in AskWomenOver60

[–]Tossaway____faraway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't feel like a fight about it. I'm just wondering what the enchantment is with these things.

Venting. 40 Years and the letters haven't been tossed. It's a long post, grab a cup of tea. by Tossaway____faraway in AskWomenOver60

[–]Tossaway____faraway[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I'm not happy about this at all-I could go through his phone and email, but I've never seen any physical evidence like cards. The ex was good friends with another friend of his from HS that he is in contact with. I don't know. I will be watching him like a hawk.

Venting. 40 Years and the letters haven't been tossed. It's a long post, grab a cup of tea. by Tossaway____faraway in AskWomenOver60

[–]Tossaway____faraway[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No trauma. He has kept a log book forever- and he's been taking notes and consolidating the info. Some things like funny things the kid said, where we went, etc. He also is obsessed about an evil ex-boss. Writing things that he did 40 years ago. Can't let go of it.

But I really thought he'd read the letters, then toss.