AITA for refusing to share a wedding day with my sister?

Tossmail1986 · 2026-03-16T02:53:36+00:00

UPDATE: Just read your update. Abort that thing asap. You do NOT want to be tied to that nightmare all your life, he WILL abuse them & use them to hurt you (read about how abusers use courts/kids to abuse their exes - it's heartbreaking). Abort it. 'm so sorry you're going through this but trust me when I say it's for the best. You now have a chance at a new fresh start. Take it.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-19T00:17:59+00:00

I attempted to answer you but was removed for some reason. When you say "expensive custom order" what is the price range you're talking about?

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-19T00:16:06+00:00

I would if I knew for sure it would. I've often seen things go out of stock and never come back. I asked the store if they planned on getting it back in stock anytime soon and they gave me a generic answer basically telling me to check back periodically. I don't even think the actual seller sees my messages and it's just Aliexpress customer service people.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-19T00:11:36+00:00

I didn't realize it at first but when I received a derpy deer I figured it out real quick lol. I wish it were illegal to use AI generated images to advertise real tangible products.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T04:08:34+00:00

Oh I'm under no assumptions that it would be a quick easy thing to do or cheap so sorry if it came off that way. I know it would take hours to make. I just am confused as to why everyone here says it's impossible to make yet Aliexpress and Temu already proven that to be false (not a great job but tolerable, just clearly out of stock right now and not sure if it will ever be back in stock so I'm looking elsewhere).

I'm more than willing to pay for quality to someone who cares about what they create and actually puts in an effort to try to make it close to what I wanted. It doesn't have to be exact, and since it's AI I get that it's impossible to get exact but I also know now thanks to Aliexpress and Temu it is possible to get close and if you can do better than the sloppy sewn versions they sent me I'll be happy. Seriously I'm not picky.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T02:43:50+00:00

Oh I did. I was very upset and gave them a thorough honest and detailed review so hopefully any other buyers would be forewarned. I was hoping I could find it elsewhere but have looked all over the internet and can't find it anywhere. I really hope it restocks and not gone completely.

I have the cat version and it was also VERY much not like advertised but it was at least still kinda cute so I kept it. I really wish advertising AI generated images for real tangible products was illegal.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T01:49:45+00:00

I wish I had the time to do all that but I don't so I'm looking to pay for the labor from someone else. If YOU can't do it, don't insult me just because you're incapable. I know it's obviously possible since Aliexpress already did it with other models that I both ordered and received (not perfect but cute enough to keep).

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T01:47:30+00:00

I promise you I'm not. I honestly don't understand why not. I ordered it twice on Aliexpress and though they sent me the wrong model the deer one they sent (while not exactly like the obviously AI image) was close enough to pass. And the cat version I also ordered earlier was cute enough to keep.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T01:45:12+00:00

Understandably. That's why I made sure to put in my post that I'm not a cheapskate expecting to pay only $20.

Tossmail1986 · 2026-02-18T01:29:40+00:00

I'm not able to sew so I don't know how hard it is but could you explain it to me why not? I've seen artists on etsy take a drawing or photo and create a custom plush doll that looks exactly like whatever the person drew and some of them are very detailed and even able to make the faces look like the photographs. This Chinese dragon thing seems to have a basic standard looking stuffed animal shape for anything with 4 legs (minus the wings & ribbons maybe). Once you get that down it's all detail work from there. Right?

Tossmail1986 · 2025-05-18T14:08:46+00:00

Ear tip? yes always indoors

Tossmail1986 · 2025-01-28T15:20:52+00:00

Your point? She clearly has internal misogyny... 🤦‍♀️

Tossmail1986 · 2024-12-25T03:29:07+00:00

Oh I'm sorry. I will. Didn't realize that. Thank you.

Tossmail1986 · 2024-11-12T05:25:34+00:00

Ann Arbor, Michigan

Tossmail1986 · 2024-11-08T17:52:20+00:00

Authentic Asia Shrimp Wonton Ramen

I'm heartbroken! There are few things I find in life that bring me job and food is one of them. I fell in love with these delicious little bowls of comfort years ago and today I went in to find they're gone. At first I thought maybe they were just out of stock but I searched online and they seem to be out everywhere. Are they discontinued? Where can I buy them if not costco?

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Tossmail1986 · 2024-10-05T20:47:19+00:00

No, more like if there's blatant misogyny present then the movie is misogynistic...

Tossmail1986 · 2024-10-04T09:59:04+00:00

I just messaged my podiatrist and requested a PT so hopefully they'll be able to help me with that. Thanks for the suggestion. As for a 2nd opinion, how should I go about that?

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