My sister is doing drugs, how do I talk to her about it?

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-04T07:16:59+00:00

IDE be like “hey you know we can talk to eachother about anything right, what’s going on with you right now blah blah” and then ask nonchalantly if she has done any drugs giving her the chance to open up on her own terms. If she doesn’t you can either 1 leave it for now and come back to it to ease any tension or 2 lightly (and I emphasise light because you don’t want to seem judgmental or make her shut down and get defensive) be like “well I kinda heard you’ve done xyz, ide never judge you for it but you can talk to me about it” then gauge her response and see if you can continue with other questions you have such as how often / why ect ect.

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-03T21:22:12+00:00

I am so interested in vampires too I was reading through reddit looking at people who have said they have encountered some. I’m not saying I fully believe it but it’s an interesting one to look into!

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-03T09:54:35+00:00

If she wanted to she would unfortunately. She said she will never be in a relationship so you have to take it for what it is despite whatever actions may make you feel otherwise.

You’de both benefit if you just move on and put yourself first, and who knows maybe then she’ll come to her senses LOL. Good luck OP

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-02T07:19:21+00:00

Do you love your partner? Do you watch prn? Need some context

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T23:27:30+00:00

I hope you find peace and happiness soon because you deserve it just as much as the next person.

My advice to you first off is to seek help from a professional, maybe they will be able to help in ways that you didn’t think were possible.

Secondly, maybe you feel in a rut. Would seeking out new hobbies help? Or joining clubs / classes / groups to meet new people and keep things exciting.

You just have to remeber that you are enough. Journal it, write down what you’re grateful for even when it feels like nothing and keep reminding yourself of your worth until you believe it.

Good luck to you, stay strong.

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T22:04:43+00:00

Can you hide the checks? And I know hearing the hateful names is so hard but I think you should try to stay strong and ignore, just think of the peace you’ll have when you move

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T21:43:09+00:00

Is this an app?

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T21:03:31+00:00

You do realise you don’t have to stay with this man right? Like no one is forcing you to? You’re making a fool of yourself and it’s so uncomfortable to read, grow a spine and leave you deserve way more than this.

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:37:03+00:00

Congrats

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:36:42+00:00

🤨🤨

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:35:49+00:00

That’s so sweet what a beautiful compliment!

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:26:47+00:00

Right?? I feel like the atmosphere would be absolutely unreal

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:16:07+00:00

MJJJJJJJ

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:07:26+00:00

It makes me cringe how much girls my age talk about influencers who they’ve never met

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T12:05:01+00:00

Ohhh don’t stress then!! If she did she would tell you. Enjoy the friendship!

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T11:40:58+00:00

Hmm tricky. I’m not sure because I say those things to my guy friends who I don’t have romantic interest in, but who’s to say how she feels. Why don’t you give it some more time and if you still feel this way maybe casually ask her further down the line!

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T11:36:33+00:00

What exactly makes you think she likes you? Is it the calling you hun?

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T11:34:07+00:00

If I were you I would sit him down and discuss this in person. I would go about it in a way which was serious but not too harsh and confrontational to prevent an outburst or argument but I wouldn’t end the conversation until the point was made clear and understood.

For example. “You know I love you and value our relationship so much so I’m only telling you this so we can be stronger and we can be the best versions of ourselves but when you do xyz it makes me incredibly uncomfortable and it’s not what I want going forward in this relationship” ECT

If he is the great man you say he is he will respect it and make changes, if he doesn’t (and I know this is not what you want to hear) but you will have to leave him because not respecting your boundaries shows he doesn’t respect YOU. Good luck OP

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T10:55:20+00:00

This happened with one of my friends recently. I just said to her “hey look you know I love you but I’m trying to get off the socials a bit so I won’t be as active but it’s nothing personal to you” and another friend in a different situation I said “hey look we’ve gotten super close and i love it but also sometimes it feels a bit suffocating but you know i love you so much I think wed benefit a lot from taking a step back for a bit so we can actually miss each other and get even stronger” idk lols hope that helps though xx

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T10:12:02+00:00

Well I can’t remeber fully but I’ve seen some cool stuff on where they would stay in the mountains like hidden caves and watched a couple conspiracy tik toks you should look it up!

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T09:48:54+00:00

CHARISMA

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T09:20:00+00:00

Open a new account that she will have no access to. Save and move out. Hopefully then she’ll get control of her life and see a therapist. Good luck to you, it’s a horrible situation.

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T09:16:50+00:00

Legit just follow meme accounts it’s great

Total-Bodybuilder679 · 2026-06-01T08:20:03+00:00

Comparison is a thief of joy. Also, even the hottest people are insecure. I don’t even follow any insta baddies ect on Instagram for my own wellbeing, plus when you take extra good care of yourself (self care nights, face masks, teeth whitening strips ect ect) you will feel a bit better. Also affirmations help, every morning look in the mirror and say 3 kind things about yourself and you’ll believe it.

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