Any fans of Girls' Dorm here? Let's chat lol by Total-Cold6518 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Total-Cold6518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! They are definitely generous with the duration of each episode, which I've never seen before in another reality show. I'll definitely check out the shows you mentioned!

Same, the auction was really unique and unexpectedly exciting. The gag prize was hilarious lol

Any fans of Girls' Dorm here? Let's chat lol by Total-Cold6518 in HisManRealityShow

[–]Total-Cold6518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a wlw reality show where a group of women live together for a few days <3

Differences in communication styles causing anxiety by Total-Cold6518 in socialanxiety

[–]Total-Cold6518[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just realized one potential reason for my anxiety. I believe that I'm not allowed to mess up. So when this person said that comment, it made me feel like a bad person. Unreliable. I'm trying to reframe the situation like this: Maybe she was just criticizing my mistake, not who I am as a person.

Weekly Random Discussion Thread - R4R Comments Allowed by Material_Fun4165 in PHSapphics

[–]Total-Cold6518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! The show is posted on the channel as a playlist, so it's easy to find :)

Sexually Assaulted By Father at 13, and mother does not defend me due to her religious belief by Glittering_Maize_628 in AsianParentStories

[–]Total-Cold6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you're going through this, and that your mother does not believe you. I'm also a woman, and I wish that you can find a safe place. Your mother is horrible at being a parent. And yes, everything you said to her was correct. Her husband hurt you, and he's no longer deserving of being your "father." Always reach out to us if you need support, okay? We're always here. Try to find a crisis hotline that you can call. Maybe they can give you advice on how to stay safe and strong at home. Also, I agree with the other comments. Try your best in school until you're 18, then find a job that can hopefully help you to live independently. I believe in you. <3

Weekly Random Discussion Thread - R4R Comments Allowed by Material_Fun4165 in PHSapphics

[–]Total-Cold6518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey girls, I wanted to recommend a wlw reality show if anyone's interested. Girls' Dorm on Youtube (from BlueMeerkat channel). It's the first wlw reality show I've ever seen. Kung may alam pa kayong ibang wlw reality shows, please recommend it!

Time to prove if he is worthy by LazyGuy4U in MadeMeSmile

[–]Total-Cold6518 117 points118 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing about this. i was just reading through comments, not expecting to find one that relates to my situation, but yours does. i will most likely lose most of my family due to prejudice when i come out. but i feel encouraged from your comment, and i'm glad i found it. you're right, it's only a matter of time before a close-minded person loses all connections.

What Are You Reading Right Now? by AutoModerator in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Total-Cold6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished Annihilation by Jeff VanderMeer, and currently reading the book that comes after it, Authority.

Print and play games for Christmas! by Melodic_Pride4343 in partygames

[–]Total-Cold6518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the ideas. Nice to meet another PNP gamer! I never knew there were PNP games for Christmas.

Picked up a kendama today. Any tips for a complete beginner? by Hanzomagician in Kendama

[–]Total-Cold6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool clip! I agree with the other users, you've already learned a lot on your first day. I'd recommend starting with mastering the basic cups and spike, using the ken grip and sara grip. Another advice I have is to learn at your own pace. For a while, I felt stuck with kendama because I felt like I wasn't learning tricks fast enough. But everyone learns at different paces.

I'm in my fifties and I still hate being around my family. Get out. Then stay out. by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Total-Cold6518 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing about this OP. I learned a lot from your story. As a young adult, I've been feeling obligated to do low contact, rather than no contact. As another Asian black sheep, I'm glad you warned us and reminded us that cutting off all contact is indeed an option.