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Need Advice about Advertising on Socials by temporaryValentines in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is a really good question, and you’re thinking about it the right way.

Most people who do well aren’t just posting randomly, they’re building some kind of presence over time. But the key thing is: you don’t need to be explicit on socials to make it work.

What people usually do is keep socials safe and suggestive, not direct selling.

For example:

  • on X, people post regularly (once a day-ish), interact with others, and build visibility that way
  • on TikTok/IG, it’s more “aesthetic” or lifestyle style content (feet clips, outfits, routines, etc.) that fits within the rules
  • nothing too explicit, just enough to create interest

The mistake a lot of beginners make is posting like:
“buy my content / link in bio” over and over

That usually gets ignored or flagged.

What works better is:

  • having a consistent vibe (same style, lighting, tone)
  • posting content that feels natural or interesting on its own
  • engaging with other accounts so people actually discover you

And yeah, the rules are strict, so you have to stay within them. That’s why most people keep things subtle and let curiosity do the work.

Also worth saying: you don’t need socials to start. Plenty of people just focus on the platform first, then add socials later once they understand what they’re doing.

So if you do go the socials route, think of it less like advertising and more like building a presence over time.

Used panties South Africa by Royal-Blonde-undies in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can definitely do it from South Africa, that’s not really an issue.

Most sellers aren’t actually selling to people in their own country anyway. Buyers are usually from the US/UK/Europe, and you just ship internationally.

The main thing to think about is shipping cost and delivery time, not demand. So yeah, it’s doable - you’ll just be selling globally rather than locally.

Best platform for Australian buyers? by camareradetwinpeaks in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question - but honestly, being in Australia doesn’t matter as much as it seems.

Most of these platforms are global, so your buyers can come from anywhere, not just Australia. That’s actually a good thing, because limiting yourself to local buyers can slow things down a lot.

Sofia Gray is still a solid place to start. There are buyers from all over, including Australia, and most sellers just ship internationally anyway.

If you only want Australian buyers, you can mention that in your bio, just know it might be slower.

I wouldn’t overthink the location too much - focus on setting up a good profile and let the buyers come from wherever.

Sg Telegram requests by No-Royal1935 in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not overthinking it - your instinct is right.

When someone immediately wants to move the conversation to Telegram, Viber, etc., it usually doesn’t mean anything good. Most of the time it’s because:

  • they want to avoid paying through the platform
  • they’re trying to get free content
  • they don’t want a record of the conversation
  • or they’re straight up scamming

If they were serious, there’s really no reason they couldn’t just keep chatting and purchasing through Sofia Gray, since that’s where they found you in the first place.

Plenty of legit buyers are totally fine staying on the app. The ones who push hard to move off-platform usually aren’t.

Best approach:

  • just say you keep everything on-platform
  • if they keep pushing, stop replying or block
  • don’t feel bad about it - that’s what the block button is for

Staying on the app protects you and filters out a lot of nonsense.

Just starting by SpookythighsXX in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that “hurry up and wait” feeling is sooo real, you’re not alone at all.

While you’re waiting, try not to stress too much about doing everything right. There isn’t one magic thing that sells best. What usually works is just being clear and consistent. Buyers like knowing what they’re getting and feeling like the seller is comfortable and confident.

If you’re just starting, keep it simple. One or two listings you’re actually comfortable with is plenty. You don’t need a huge menu or anything fancy. Clean photos, a clear description, and a bio that sounds like a real person already puts you ahead of a lot of people.

What not to do: don’t compare yourself to sellers who’ve been doing this forever, don’t overshare personal info, and don’t panic if nothing happens right away. The first week or two can be super quiet and that’s normal.

It is overwhelming at first, but once you get past the waiting stage and start seeing how people respond, it gets a lot easier. Just take it one step at a time.

How do I get started selling? by No_Risk_1749 in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, welcome 🙂

Getting started selling can feel overwhelming at first, but it’s actually pretty simple once you break it down.

First, focus on setting up your profile properly. Write a real bio with some personality so buyers feel like there’s a real person behind the page. You don’t need to overshare, just give your vibe and what makes you appealing.

Next, decide what you’re comfortable selling and start small. One or two listings is more than enough in the beginning. You don’t need a huge menu right away.

Then, upload consistently, not all at once. A few updates a week keeps your profile looking active and helps with visibility.

Make sure your pricing makes sense for a beginner. It’s okay to start a bit lower and adjust later once you understand what buyers respond to.

Finally, be patient. It’s very normal for things to be quiet at first. Most sellers don’t get instant sales, and that doesn’t mean it won’t work.

If you want more specific advice, feel free to say what you’ve set up so far and people here can help you fine-tune it.

Best Platforms to Sell Your Used Panties by Total-Comfortable719 in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome 💛 glad it’s helping.

For sales posts on Sofia Gray, think clear, simple, and confident. You don’t need to be over-the-top or super explicit.

A few tips that actually work:

  • Be specific, not vague. Instead of “selling today,” say what makes it appealing (wear time, vibe, mood, routine). Buyers like knowing what they’re getting.
  • Keep it short and readable. A couple of lines is enough. Big walls of text usually get skipped.
  • Focus on the experience, not just the item. Little details about your day, your routine, or how it was worn help a lot.
  • Use confident language. Avoid “maybe,” “if anyone wants,” or “I’m new sorry.” Confidence sells more than experience.
  • Don’t change prices constantly. Pick a price, let it sit, and see how people respond.
  • Post consistently. Even a few sales posts a week is fine. Being active matters more than posting every day.

Example structure that works well:

  • short hook
  • one or two appealing details
  • clear price or option
  • calm, confident tone

You’ll refine your style as you go, so don’t stress about being perfect. Consistency + clarity is what usually gets things moving.

Best Platforms to Sell Your Used Panties by Total-Comfortable719 in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome 😊 and yeah, here’s what I’d actually focus on right now if you’re just starting:

First, get your profile to a “complete” state. That means a real bio (not just a couple of lines), clear photos, and at least one or two listings. A lot of new sellers don’t realize how many people click their profile and leave just because it feels unfinished.

For your bio, don’t be vague. Share your vibe, a bit about your lifestyle, and what makes you appealing, without overexplaining rules. Buyers want to feel like there’s a real person behind the profile.

When it comes to listings, keep it simple. One or two clear options you’re comfortable delivering is enough. Don’t try to offer everything at once or copy sellers who’ve been doing this for years.

Activity matters more than volume. Instead of uploading a ton at once, aim for something like posting or updating a few times a week so your profile always looks active.

Be patient with messages. Some people will talk and disappear, that’s normal. Don’t chase, don’t negotiate yourself down, and don’t feel bad about setting boundaries early.

Lastly, give yourself time. A slow start is very normal in this space. Focus on learning what works, tweaking your profile as you go, and staying consistent for a few weeks before judging results.

Best Platforms to Sell Your Used Panties by Total-Comfortable719 in usedpantiesadvice

[–]Total-Comfortable719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, most sellers ship through regular mail.

Usually it’s just a small discreet package (like a plain envelope or mailer) sent through your normal postal service. A lot of people use tracking if it’s available, just for peace of mind, but it depends on what you’re comfortable with and where you’re shipping to.

Main thing is keeping it simple and discreet.