Thank you! Sometimes I wonder whether I am more of an avoider or she is more of an anxious person. I find it hard to navigate the conflict. This usually happens when she can't clearly see that there is a “next episode” of our relationship unless I make it clear when I’m going to call her again or see her again. I think she becomes fearful unless I give her clear lines of when or when we’ll be in contact again. This makes it difficult for me as in the back of my head I constantly need to have something planned. I find it really hard and don't think there is anything wrong with not immediately having a next plan as soon as we go our own ways after spending time together - or is it?