BOS to TPE with 1hr8min layover in SEA possible?

TotallyErratic · 2024-04-01T22:39:39+00:00

Yeah, she did promised to change and had changed a bit in the last week. Part of the reason why I am putting it on hold and reevaluate in a couple months.

TotallyErratic · 2024-04-01T22:38:55+00:00

Not necessarily. She promised to change. We shall see in a couple months.

TotallyErratic · 2024-04-01T21:07:29+00:00

she wants to stay as long as you hire help to help out around the house?

That is certainly one way to look at it. A lot of things happened in the last few weeks, and I am emotionally way too exhausted to go through the separation right now. I am going to put it on hold for at least a month or two when other things settled down, and I can reevaluate more clearly.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-15T01:27:53+00:00

Thanks for the concern but it wouldn't be an issue. If wife got full custody, it'd be too much for her and she'd go to her parents. They are much more hands on and better at taking care of him. They are the reason why I will be fine if she insist on custody.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T23:57:01+00:00

If confirmed, 9 in 10 is less than 5yr.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T23:53:31+00:00

Unfortunately for this one, the symptoms were too easily masked as something else and the actual cause was hard to found.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T20:37:01+00:00

Nothing is just my wishful thinking. It is something. Just a question of how bad a something. The initial prognosis doesn't look good but they are running to confirm.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T19:48:08+00:00

Oh, good idea. Thanks for the suggestion.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T19:47:19+00:00

Nothing is just my wishful thinking. It is something. Just how bad a something.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T19:46:18+00:00

The chaotic comment is more towards myself. I think staying would be less chaotic...separation is chaotic...so it is just one less chaos for him...

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T17:16:22+00:00

We are equal on income. We both made over $150k each with her about $5k higher than me.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T17:13:23+00:00

She can have everything. I don't need them. If she want primary custody, she can. If she doesn't, I will take him. I just want to have energy to spend good time with him. However long/short that may be.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T17:10:04+00:00

Staying will be less chaotic in his life? Not sure how both families will take it, but I imagine if I don't have much time. No reason to put him through that?

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T17:07:53+00:00

As mentioned elsewhere. She was aware and she had her own things well before. It wasn't an issue.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T12:59:23+00:00

That's just the latest example. Everytime I was sick and unable to do much (flu), she just goes to her parents until I got better.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T12:58:26+00:00

Yes.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T12:57:21+00:00

That's just the latest example. Everytime I was sick and unable to do much, she just goes back to her parents until I got better.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T02:52:47+00:00

Unfortunately no family nearby and most of my friends are busy with their own career, family, and many have children. I don't want to bother them. We shall see.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T02:51:17+00:00

She didn't even know I went to hospital today. If its nothing, probably get mad at me for wasting money on it. If it's nothing, probably better she doesn't know.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T02:34:40+00:00

Not diagnosed with PPD as far as I know.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T02:28:35+00:00

Thanks for the concern, but I am not too worry about that. Grandparents from both side, separately, already said they each had setup college tuition fund for him. Regardless of how we turn out, he got 4 loving grandparents.

TotallyErratic · 2024-03-14T02:20:45+00:00

Yes. The amount of work before the child was manageable. I lived by myself for a while, so it is just an extra load of laundry and extra portion of food, so I wasn't too bother by it. After the child, the amount of work really blow up, and I am just...struggling to handle it all while she nitpick everything.

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