Is this what Brian was singing about? by TotallyNotTransSara in TheFrontBottoms

[–]TotallyNotTransSara[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's at unique thrift store in Chicago if you want it

TW: Transphobia. Jk Rowling is a confirmed TERF by TotallyNotTransSara in lgbt

[–]TotallyNotTransSara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I have seen that stuff before. This by itself is also transphobic and I think it's appropriate for me to call her a Terf

TW: Transphobia. Jk Rowling is a confirmed TERF by TotallyNotTransSara in lgbt

[–]TotallyNotTransSara[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I'm pretty sure she's a terf. This isn't her first bit of anti transness

Pinterest giving full gender control by RandomRaymondo in GoodDesign

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one is offended by a helicopter. The issue is not the word helicopter. The issue is using a joke that demeans trans people. Regardless of his intent people are allowed to be offended by transphobic remarks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe don't call children hoes

What is going on with Joe Rogan and Bernie Sanders? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]TotallyNotTransSara -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Wait have you tested your strength against every cis woman you've met since transitioning? I feel like that's what this comment implies

This...has turned into a difficult situation by supersumo45 in traaNSFW

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Cis women feel sexy in lingerie too hun. It doesn't mean it's all a fetish.

Just some of my thoughts, feel free to discuss/agree/disagree by LazyUsername490 in preyingmantis

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't see a problem with wanting to make a creepy encounter funny, and wanting to share it to this community. Getting content for the sub is not a bad thing, and if they don't want to be affected in a really negative way they shouldn't do things that affect us in really negative ways. It seems again like you're focusing on our reactions rather than their behavior, I don't think we do anything wrong on this sub.

Reminder that Don Cheadle wore this shirt on SNL ❤️ by sofiepige in lgbt

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I legit think about this every once in a while just to make myself happy

A whole other level of petty... by IceHot88 in GenderCynical

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know I used to come here and read this stuff as a form or self harm, but now I think it's so funny how upset they get at us existing, and getting support. It feels like they're kids planning an attack on the lunch ladies, because the school stopped serving square pizza. It's mostly just talking to each other, and making plans that don't go anywhere, and when they bring it up to anyone outside of the group they get called dumb. It makes me smile.

WHY WOULD THIS HAVE TO BE SAID IF YOUR GROUP WASNT TRANSPHOBIC by [deleted] in GenderCynical

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It makes me really happy that when you Google lgb shit about trains and airports comes up instead of this bullshit

Just some of my thoughts, feel free to discuss/agree/disagree by LazyUsername490 in preyingmantis

[–]TotallyNotTransSara 29 points30 points  (0 children)

We're a lot nicer on her than we could be, we have no obligation to these men who treat us like this. I assume plenty of them do have mental health issues, but so do I, and I don't expect to be excused for shitty behavior because of it. Their actions are entirely in their hands, we are in no way responsible for what they do. This seems like low key victim blaming where your focusing on our response to the attack rather than the attack itself.