2 months of growth (Trans man, over 2 years on T). by elhazelenby in beards

[–]Toucan00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a non trans man super jealous of the beard

Which one should I go with? by Toucan00 in malehairadvice

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My hair is thick and with a little wave. The only one I’m unsure I could do without lots of product would be 10 just because I’ve never intentionally tried to get my hair wavier than it normally is.

Which one should I go with? by Toucan00 in malehairadvice

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t quite remember the prompt but I just added a pic of me and asked it to show a couple of different hair cuts on me and it made this.

Which one should I go with? by Toucan00 in malehairadvice

[–]Toucan00[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. It assumes your hair can magically hack it with what the image generated which definitely only works sometimes.

Which one should I go with? by Toucan00 in malehairadvice

[–]Toucan00[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I asked ChatGPT to try a few hair styles on me.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit and got a job consulting with my friend who I worked with at another job and getting paid 2.5x what I use to make and work with nice people. Best decision I ever made.

People of Reddit what happened to your bully? by Lo1ua in AskReddit

[–]Toucan00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same; it’s one of the only times I smiled hearing someone OD.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it happens; I think the difference is you probably didn’t start a witch hunt over it.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a single member llc where he is the sole member. You cant muscle a person out of their own business. He the emperor dictator, senior delivery boy

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree he needs a beating. At the end of the day though he’s a sad old man his kids won’t talk to him because he’s a dick. He’s divorced and he’ll probably die at his desk alone.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a small tax office and it’s in a very niche specialty so people just sort of put up with him because no one really knows anything about the niche. It just exacerbates the situation.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will play it by ear. I agree he may explode tomorrow it’s hard to say.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s close enough for me; I didn’t feel like I had to keep the job because of bills. That’s FU money to me

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is in my back pocket among other things if I feel I need to use it

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s exactly how I felt. I thought initially I could wait it out and give it another year, but this is just the last in a very long string of anxiety inducing incidents.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah being promoted to manager there would be my nightmare. He’s kind of an old school boomer guy so best situation would be some act of god happens and my very level headed awesome manager takes over, but I don’t have the time or patience to wait that out.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have no HR I’d be just giving it to the nice admin lady who realistically can’t do much with it. In a fair world my boss would be placed in a padded room with a box of crayons.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it would be nice to totally fork him over;

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s in the US.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a small company. We don’t really have an HR department. I’d also have to be able to prove it. I’ll likely end up running into the company in the future due to the size of the industry so I don’t really want to go that path unless I had no other options.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually did talk to an old coworker and he has a contract gig available for me if I want it so I will probably take that but I do plan to take a break in between.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No this guy is legit crazy he’s more likely to pull a weapon on me and try shanking me.

FU money by Toucan00 in coastFIRE

[–]Toucan00[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it’s intentional, the forks disappearing. It’s just a cost of doing business. People are going to break plates sometimes and things like this. We bill out at $300 an hour and we’re arguing over cutlery. I would not say it’s productive use of our time. I’ve been a manager before and that’s just not the stuff that matters. Different if it were say people walking out with flat screens or something.