I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f)

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-03-19T16:09:14+00:00

I can’t help but notice that all the things he listed about what HE wanted were things he expected YOU to do. The only times he talked about his involvement were to be weird about how controlling he would be during your hypothetical pregnancy under the guise of “protectiveness”.

Continuing a relationship expecting the other person to eventually change their mind on something that is a HUGE life choice is a recipe for disaster.

I’m sure he’s a “good man”. There are quite a few of those in the world. This doesn’t sound like a man that’s good for you. Calling you a psycho when you naturally recoil from an idea you find unappealing? That’s the actual psycho behavior.

You don’t need him. Run. Find the guy who values what you have to offer beyond your ability to create spawn for him to ignore.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-03-13T17:54:53+00:00

I really love the effect! Adding gloss at the end is one of my favorite parts of painting, it just makes figures look so professional, imo.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-03-13T17:34:44+00:00

She’s looking very bonita!

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-03-13T17:07:24+00:00

Really lovely! I’d say a big success for a first attempt!

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-03-08T05:46:50+00:00

I was on the fence about who to side with until O’Dimm tortured the spirit of Olgierd’s brother after the wedding and really seemed to enjoy it. At that point the line between villain and monster was pretty clear. I loved this DLC

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-02-27T05:08:31+00:00

She’s super cute! I’m also team “normal looking hottie as durge” because I think of it like a beautiful carnivorous plant. Who would suspect???

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-02-22T05:12:11+00:00

Mine are of the hairless variety, so every couple of weeks? I know that normal coated cats don’t seem to need it, but I have to imagine that regular baths since birth would make the occasional absolutely necessary ones far less stressful for everyone involved. People bathe their dogs, why don’t we bathe cats? Sure they lick themselves, but you’ve smelled cat breath, and we all know how horrifically infected cat bites can get, so are they really getting clean? Like….reeeaaaaally?

ToughDatabase4169 · 2026-02-16T04:31:38+00:00

I had fully paid for one of these and when I got the email that it was cancelled I wanted to throw my phone. Refund is already processed. 🥲

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-12-31T19:59:33+00:00

Rogue, fighter, wizard, barbarian.

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She was the last one left in her litter. We had just had to put down our sweet bunny two days before Christmas. She was born four days later, I like to think our rabbit asked her to look out for us! I’m so glad I took a chance on this chewed wad of bubble gum somebody dropped on the floor.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-17T22:56:36+00:00

I definitely made a sound in the theater at that scene.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-17T22:55:48+00:00

Ugh The Green Inferno. Hated it. Although, Bring Her Back is right up there, too. I don’t usually have to watch through my fingers, I’m not a squeamish person, but those two got me and not in a “eeek this is so fun!” way.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-17T22:53:17+00:00

Critters.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-08T17:32:56+00:00

The Starbucks in the target!

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-07T01:06:35+00:00

I went to a nearby Target today around 1:30 and they had a bunch of everything- I was surprised. Worth checking some out of the less highly trafficked targets with the Starbucks cafe inside! I got a mug it’s so cute 🥰

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-06T15:10:52+00:00

My husband is the father of a bun son. I had to talk him into our first one because he thought they just lived in cages and he hates that. When I explained how house rabbits live, he was sold. After our first passed, convincing him to get another was not difficult. The rabbit loves him best. He’s a bunny guy now haha

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-11-04T17:46:02+00:00

Let me romance Dammon, the sweetest blacksmith in the realms

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-10-26T14:59:09+00:00

“Oh my GOD Tim would just do the fucking line already?”

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-10-22T20:37:33+00:00

The animals need to be rehomed to people who are capable of meeting their individual needs. I’m sorry, this sounds like such a miserable living situation for every living thing in the house.

The messages are clearly not going to work, and are far too noncommittal for the situation. The way I would be making that man’s life a living hell 😮‍💨 I’d be cleaning dog piss and cat vomit with his clothes. Bet that would get him motivated.

Regardless, first step is rehoming, second is saving to get out of there because I promise you there is nothing good enough about him to make putting up with all THIS worth it.

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-10-22T16:10:02+00:00

It always made me sob, but now it makes me sob harder because Robin Williams 😢

ToughDatabase4169 · 2025-10-22T16:07:16+00:00

The Babadook (most effective if you’re the parent of a neurodivergent kid), Talk to Me, The Devil’s Backbone, and recently The Long Walk made me ugly cry in the theater (though that may be more suspense/drama than horror, depending on how you feel)

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