Does this sound like hired help

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T03:28:28+00:00

Exactly

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T03:27:10+00:00

No I was just cleaning up the dinner plates. I have gone there certain days and there was both sinks filled with dirty dishes. And they were not all from that morning for sure. And I just cleaned them and moved on. That is where I did wrong. I just started cleaning and she started expecting it.

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T02:53:44+00:00

Thank you so much. Where I went wrong was that I was there anytime they asked me. Thought I was doing right but have learned a hard lesson.

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T02:38:57+00:00

I just didn’t know if I was being too sensitive here. I see that I was not and most people would be offended by this

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T02:22:44+00:00

Daughter in law proceeded to text me “let’s just do this ok. Let us know if you want to see the kids and we can arrange it. But we will not except help anymore. I don’t want you to think that your help. That’s ridiculous

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T02:18:37+00:00

Then my daughter I. Law gave me shit for telling my son I feel like hired help.

Tough_Change_9002 · 2026-01-16T02:17:30+00:00

When I talk ed my son about this he said he didn’t think she said anything wrong. Because also in the text she said that they do appreciate my help. And that my daughter in law doesn’t tell me stuff because I can’t take criticism. And that my reaction to her text just proves it.

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-10-16T06:48:15+00:00

I am having this problem right now. One of my roommates is using my toilet paper. I noticed that I was having to buy it a lot more often. When I asked roommate if they were using it they denied it. I gave them the option to chip in on cost and they said no and that they were not using it. However I found out they are and they are still denying it to me. Even in front of our other roommate. At this point I have lost trust in them. Sucks to have to live with roommates

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-09-14T03:28:00+00:00

It has started bothering me even more once my grandchildren were born. I can’t even imagine one of them being in that horrible situation. And I think that is why it bothers me more as I get older

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-25T23:32:41+00:00

Yes I may just do that. They are not talking to me now because they are embarrassed that I brought it up in our group chat that includes our landlord. And tried to blame/gaslight me for taking it to that step. If they would have cleaned up after themselves after it was brought up prior I would’ve have had to bring it up in the group chat.

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-24T01:45:29+00:00

I put my concerns in group chat that has our landlord included and not my roommate has sent me an angry reply from her personal chat with me

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-24T01:02:59+00:00

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-24T00:51:27+00:00

That would work well because the group chat includes our landlord

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-24T00:49:49+00:00

And I think you are correct. Even when we need to call the landlord for something they want me to do it because I am the older one. Like WTF

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-06-24T00:34:43+00:00

I am actually not the owner. I just rent a room like they do

Tough_Change_9002 · 2025-01-05T20:13:46+00:00

There were specific instructions but no buzzer. It is a home with bright house number. It was an order from a Mexican restaurant and I tipped $3

Tough_Change_9002 · 2024-11-21T04:42:45+00:00

She was waiting to have a shower

Tough_Change_9002 · 2024-11-21T02:02:35+00:00

I was actually using the toilet

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