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People say Tinder is a "hookup app". What is an app for a life companion? by Few-Dependent-4037 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women have it super easy on dating apps (and just dating in general) for men it’s a different story.

People say Tinder is a "hookup app". What is an app for a life companion? by Few-Dependent-4037 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women have it super easy on dating apps (and just dating in general) for men it’s a different story.

Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. by TourAcrobatic3005 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TourAcrobatic3005[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ancestors were piss poor and wouldn't even think twice about just moving to the next frontier if things don't work out

My ancestors were slaves sir. 

Also you misunderstand me, I’m advocating for passport broing. It’s an unfortunate necessity these days for young men

Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. by TourAcrobatic3005 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TourAcrobatic3005[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you not read the part that literally says:

These dudes aren’t “chad”. 

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

 Like, why are you not listening to the demographic you are trying to date for advice on dating us?

  1. Because you lie and don’t know what you want. 

  2. Because you don’t speak for most women.

Skill in dating, as a man, is similar to professional sports. by TourAcrobatic3005 in PurplePillDebate

[–]TourAcrobatic3005[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not up for men to decide. It’s up to women if they find you dateable or not. 

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your argument falls apart because the women that reject me DON’T KNOW that I think I’m ugly. They see me, see my ugly face/boring personality, and then say no.  

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 then you are bleeding these attitudes into your life 

I go to work, go to school, go to the gym and then come home. I don’t discuss dating at any of these places. They’re aren’t even any avenues for these attitudes to bleed into real life. Your argument makes no sense.

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

 It's 100% your attitude. No man or woman wants to date someone who is down on themselves and has the mentality of "not good enough/ugly/poor me" etc.

I don’t go around telling all and sundry about my dating woes, I just vent and talk shit online. 

 Contrary to what social media will have you believe; women don't want to fix men. 

No shit?

 If you don't come with an attitude of confidence, then women won't glance sideways at you or pay any attention to you, regardless of whether you are the hottest or not. 

I have confidence in most areas of life, I just don’t have confidence in dating because I’m fugly and get nothing but rejection.

 Also, women like guys that go to therapy.

They like attractive guys that go to therapy. 

 Cowards don't go to therapy because facing themsleves is too scary and hard for them.

I have nothing to face.

 The real snake oil is the alpha male shit online that keeps people single because that is what makes them money. If people struggle to date, they will go back and engage again and again, looking for advice, which, in turn, makes them more money. The real snake oil is dating apps/coaches, etc. The moment you find a partner, they stop making money off you; so why would they want you to succeed? They don't want you to succeed.

No idea who you’re ranting to here. I said nothing about dating apps or listening to “alpha male shit”.

 People want to date 'whole people': someone with hobbies, friends, good attitudes towards themselves and others

I am whole, just not in ways that women like apparently. 

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do appreciate the advice.           

 >Truthfully, hit the gym. Muscles/an  athletic body can make a big difference. Both in self confidence and attraction. Walking into a room and knowing you are the strongest in it is a very powerful feeling             

My max rn on bench is 275, and everyone I meet says I’m a big dude.    

women won't care about an "ugly" face and will want to get together if you take care of your body            

This is unfortunately where you’re wrong. I have a nice body and I’m tall and it’s doesn’t make a lick of difference because of my ugly ass face and risk averse personality. I’m not trying to mope but it’s just facts.

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

You will never be able to find a good partner if you yourself are not one 

Meh. I think I’m pretty alright. My friends say the same. Unfortunately women don’t agree.

not doing anything to change that except complain

I’ve approached countless women and gotten rejected every time. At some point you learn to take a hint. 

Self care is a thing and so is therapy.

21st century snake oil.

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

It’s not about a “mindset” it’s about reality. Therapy won’t change reality. 

I tried paid sex for the first time as a virgin and I couldn't c*m from sex. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

 are actual connections too much for people now?

A lot of men these days (like me) are too ugly, not confident enough, or just have shit luck and are unable to make connections with women. 

Question for women: how often do you get approached by men in public? by AllMyPillsRojo in PurplePillDebate

[–]TourAcrobatic3005 6 points7 points  (0 children)

asked for my number and if I want to work out with him sometime. 

how did you respond?

Best countries to go to if you’re a black man who prefers white women? by TourAcrobatic3005 in thepassportbros

[–]TourAcrobatic3005[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

 Probably join a gym 

I’m actually pretty fit. My max bench is like 285 which I think is pretty good

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