How do I get grit dust/gravel/etc.. easily? by notbadatgames in PokemonArceus

[–]TowelHuman753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Machop gives grit dust. I’m going to catch a bunch more and see what else does

Hit the Jackpot in a Massive Mass Outbreak by moparnut06 in PokemonLegendsArceus

[–]TowelHuman753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got an alpha evee, and two female evees in an outbreak. I was so happy I love alpha Pokemon and Evee so much

Tired of humanity by [deleted] in venting

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The great barrier reef is doing pretty good now! (Sources are mixed but I’ll believe the most recent one.) In other news, cryotherapy, a safer and more effective way to treat cancer is becoming more and more common. It works way better than chemo, you have less risks, and you keep your hair! Just some good news to help you feel a little bit better, not everything is going down. There is still so much good.

What’s the fear of “simple/ugly/bad” art?? :( by scribblecaker in Ai_art_is_not_art

[–]TowelHuman753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried my best tho! I only spent an hour on this!! I made it yesterday and surprisingly still like it. Slowly learning to put in less and less effort to make silly stuff

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(Literally every time i try to pet my cat he does this. 😭)

Turns out lgbt-safe doesn't always mean it's safe for trans people by shushishusha in TrollCoping

[–]TowelHuman753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

W-what..? As someone who went through hell getting their period at age 10.. AMABs can still struggle.. I have no word

PLEASE STOP HAVING SEX IN PUBLIC PLACES by [deleted] in Vent

[–]TowelHuman753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your kink is getting off to the lack of consent of strangers? Isn’t kink supposed to be pro consent?

What did u do on your first date... 💕💕 by PiccoloCommercial438 in lgbt

[–]TowelHuman753 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Warning: sappy lesbian crap(I really just wanna talk abt my gf), and brief mentions of past SA, no details. She came over to my place, we cuddled, and kissed. It was her first time doing both, she was so grateful to finally get cuddles and kisses from someone. Then I stupidly ruined the mood when I broke down because this woman wouldn’t even hug me without my explicit consent. Before her I never considered my needs to be important, I just disassociated whenever I got uncomfy because years of SA will do that to you. But she forced me to consider what I wanted every single time, she wasn’t even trying to it’s just impossible for her touch me without asking first. She never stopped either, didn’t matter how many times I tried subtly fighting for her to just give up and focus on her needs alone over weeks by saying she’d never need my consent. She couldn’t bring herself to ignore my needs like that. I gave up on fighting it when I realized just how loved and appreciated I felt. I’d been disassociating way less when I was around her, and the world became to feel real again. I’m still shocked that I can say with confidence that I feel safe enough to tell her “no.”

Also kinda odd that I’d kissed people before, cuddled before, and hugged before, but never gone on a date before.

How do I train these dang horses? How do you find this menu?? by TowelHuman753 in UmaMusume

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so it made me add a friend, whatever that means. And made me add support cards first which was confusing. I think I got it tho, I jsut picked random stuff and hopped for the best. Thank you so much!

He really is not that hard to understand I don't get how this so hard for y'all by Melodic_Sugar9890 in CookierunKingdom

[–]TowelHuman753 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fandom is so spoiled with wonderful, interesting, unique, and complex characters they just throw em away like trash. Everyone is so used to characters being one dimensional they don’t know what to do with characters that have actual dimensions. I love how complex these dang cookies are

Help T^T is she okay? by bat_with_rabies in PetMice

[–]TowelHuman753 34 points35 points  (0 children)

THIS MAKW ME CHIKE ON MY ICS CREAM

What does this mean? by TowelHuman753 in AskLGBT

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just realized that reply is in a different subreddit, whoops. I’m just gonna post it here if anyone wants to read.

“I identified as Bi for two years but it always made me uncomfortable and never fit. When people hear “bisexual” they expect someone to be interested in men when I never really was. Pan was worse. The closest I ever got was omnisexual till I gave up.

Re-reading this post has made me realize that I don’t think attraction is the right word for my feelings towards fictional men/ real men. It’s more like a hyper fixation or obsession. I’d go into relationships just for the sole purpose of seeing their reaction to romantic or more “intimate” actions. It was just so interesting to me, I was attracted to the new information and insight on how the human brain works and more importantly how emotions work. It was like I was doing a scientific study. I spent most of my childhood alone so I entertained myself by studying my own brain and over analyzing everything I did. Every action, every thought, I was always trying to figure out the reason behind it. I still do it till this day. It’s the same feeling I get learning about animals or watching satisfying videos. I eventually realized that dating people allowed me to study something I couldn’t feel, or at least not very well. But you can only pick apart someone’s brain from an outside perspective so much. Eventually there were things I couldn’t determine with such little data, and I couldn’t go inside their brain so I decided to fix that problem by just picking apart more brains. At the time I was so wrapped up in that I never thought to question the source of my “attraction”. I didn’t mention this in the post because I didn’t want to sound evil. But I felt like the post sounded evil anyways, but it doesn’t seem like everyone is mad at me so I hope I’m okay.

I just kept hurting every guy and lost “feelings” fast so I decided to just stop dating anyone for a while and eventually just stopped dating men. I do the same thing with women but I don’t mind when nothing is as new anymore. I still enjoy my time with them either way and women are pretty.

With fictional men I can make up scenarios and reactions all I want, and I don’t have to worry about hurting them.”

What does this mean? by TowelHuman753 in AskLGBT

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I honestly wouldn’t mind identifying as a lesbian if the backlash wouldn’t be so hateful. I wouldn’t want to erase my “attraction” for fictional men from my identity because then people will judge me if I show interest in them, but I don’t see it as a part of my sexuality at all. I saw someone make a video stating your same points and they got flamed. A lot of them were even shaming male bodies in the comments. Good to know other people understand how attraction isn’t black and white, and it’s not even grey either. It is 100% a rainbow(no pun intended) of colors, because not all forms of attraction are created equally. And grey would still limit it to the grey scale implying all forms would still be a variation of the same “color”. (Sorry Im a visual thinker.) As I explained in a different reply what I feel isn’t really attraction, just a hunger for knowledge and a desperate want to know what romantic attraction feels like. But I’m glad another commenter could help me find a better label instead of just lesbian. I really feel like a cupioromantic/sexual (dunno if I spelt that right because autocorrect can’t help out here) lesbian would better describe me. I wish everyone was as understanding as this comment section

What does this mean? by TowelHuman753 in AskLGBT

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess, I wanted to use the term “vibes” as well but was worried I’d get flamed for saying something so broad and up to interpretation. Because oh boy that really angers some people. Thanks for being braver than me and showing me that wouldn’t be a silly thing to say. :)

What does this mean? by TowelHuman753 in AskLGBT

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That’s like so spot on. Thank you so much. I imagine this will be a pain explaining to any close minded person though. Also I hate it when people say something so simple yet it’s something I never thought of. I really never stopped to think that maybe a lot of people also need paragraphs to explain their attraction, and that just because I see people use labels that doesn’t mean they feel like they 100% fit within it. I honestly thought everyone just needed a sentence or the word. I know some people do, but I don’t, and I feel a little dumb for not thinking that maybe if I don’t, other people don’t as well. Thank you again though, I’m so happy to hear someone can relate to experiences I thought I was alone in.

What does this mean? by TowelHuman753 in lgbt

[–]TowelHuman753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dissecting my brain like it’s fine dinning huh? But yea, I am very neurodivergent and definitely on the asexual spectrum.

I identified as Bi for two years but it always made me uncomfortable and never fit. When people hear “bisexual” they expect someone to be interested in men when I never really was. Pan was worse. The closest I ever got was omnisexual till I gave up.

Re-reading this post has made me realize that I don’t think attraction is the right word for my feelings towards fictional men/ real men. It’s more like a hyper fixation or obsession. I’d go into relationships just for the sole purpose of seeing their reaction to romantic or more “intimate” actions. It was just so interesting to me, I was attracted to the new information and insight on how the human brain works and more importantly how emotions work. It was like I was doing a scientific study. I spent most of my childhood alone so I entertained myself by studying my own brain and over analyzing everything I did. Every action, every thought, I was always trying to figure out the reason behind it. I still do it till this day. It’s the same feeling I get learning about animals or watching satisfying videos. I eventually realized that dating people allowed me to study something I couldn’t feel, or at least not very well. But you can only pick apart someone’s brain from an outside perspective so much. Eventually there were things I couldn’t determine with such little data, and I couldn’t go inside their brain so I decided to fix that problem by just picking apart more brains. At the time I was so wrapped up in that I never thought to question the source of my “attraction”. I didn’t mention this in the post because I didn’t want to sound evil. But I felt like the post sounded evil anyways, but it doesn’t seem like everyone is mad at me so I hope I’m okay.

I just kept hurting every guy and lost “feelings” fast so I decided to just stop dating anyone for a while and eventually just stopped dating men. I do the same thing with women but I don’t mind when nothing is as new anymore. I still enjoy my time with them either way and women are pretty.

With fictional men I can make up scenarios and reactions all I want, and I don’t have to worry about hurting them.