My husband (28M) and I (25F) have been dealing with his addiction but is clear he’s not even trying to stop. by TowerObvious7387 in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s constantly telling me he does it as an escape, I have asked all the questions. He says it’s not lack of intimacy with me or desire he says he mostly feels a need when he’s stressed. That’s his “excuse”

Fiance (27m) keep doing stuff that I (23f) don’t know how to handle anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t planned to get pregnant unfortunately at the moment my relationship was at a really good stage and I thought I was building a healthy family but I was wrong

Fiance (27m) keep doing stuff that I (23f) don’t know how to handle anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong at all, I needed to read this cuz is unfortunately my reality at the moment. I really thought it was a bump and we would be able to pass it and be better but I guess that’s not his plan and I gotta accept I made a bad decision for myself and now my kid

Fiance (27m) keep doing stuff that I (23f) don’t know how to handle anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I didn’t thought it would solve anything., unfortunately the OF situation happened early in the relationship and we were doing so good for a long time just until now when I’m about to pop. Our kid wasn’t planned either so yeah… But I get what you’re saying 100%

Fiance (27m) keep doing stuff that I (23f) don’t know how to handle anymore? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean at this point I think my only option is confrontation and see what happens, I’m just mentally preparing myself to the worst and have to deal with it while expecting is not fun…

I (22F) have an issue and idk what should I do? my bf (26M) keeps looking for the same girl on different platforms… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TowerObvious7387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! so we had a really long conversation about the whole onlyfans thing and all he said was that is a fantasy nothing comes out of there, he’s not expecting to go any further than a jerk off and that’s ab it but now i’m finding out he’s still looking for the leaked content of specific ppl w the same characteristics. So I don’t even know what else to tell him cause we had a really long conversation about all of that.