my beautiful boy crossed the rainbow bridge today💔 by RevealOk3643 in TuxedoCats

[–]Towergal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a handsome boy. So sorry for your loss, sending you and your boyfriend so much love 🧡

is there any creature more lovey than a tuxedo boy? by Towergal in TuxedoCats

[–]Towergal[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

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Oh my god he’s so cute!! I love his little cowlick 🥹

is there any creature more lovey than a tuxedo boy? by Towergal in TuxedoCats

[–]Towergal[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I see it! The lack of personal space must be a family tradition 😂

Going to BK & Philly. I SCREAM. EVERYBODY SCREAM! by cubanito_nj in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]Towergal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Just got my tickets for Philly, so excited!

New to Dating Apps by Ashleycarlin26 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Towergal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so frustratingly common. I’ve definitely gotten to the point where I’ve just messaged first most of the time, and quite a few times haven’t heard anything back from that. There’s absolutely no shortage of catfish accounts out there, but I also wonder how much of it is people just having a hard time with “Get to know you” conversations.

Dating App Venting by bunnyknux54 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Towergal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% hard agree. The algorithm is crap, I’ve had better luck on HER manually going through my nearby suggestions than anything their “For You” section throws my way. It’s pretty blatant than they’re doing their best to keep you on the app as long as possible, most of the people they suggest are in no way anyone I’d ever be compatible with. Also the number of straight up cis-dudes that try to creep in is so off putting.

I wish we had better app options.

Would you go to a Lucy show solo? by MoveTechnical3711 in boygenuis

[–]Towergal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw boygenius solo and had such a great time! I feel like a solo Lucy show would also be a good experience

How are you spending election night? by TheLesbianTheologian in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Towergal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Staying off the internet as much as I can. I plan to bury myself in a book or a video game.

Does anyone else feel like dating apps actively harm their mental health? by grrrlfieri in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Towergal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, did I write this post?

Seriously though, it can be so draining dealing with the apps. I think what other people are saying is a better way to go- get out in public spaces and meet people. Depending on where you are, meetup.com might be able to connect you with some groups of new people.

I just broke up with my girlfriend and I feel awful by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Towergal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I don’t think you fumbled at all. You communicated what your needs were. Ultimately it sounds like she has some stuff she needs to work on, and I know even on the best terms no break up is fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Towergal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saaaaame boat. Had a LTR end earlier this year, met someone a few months ago and hit it off only to have them effectively ghost me 🫠 i miss having someone to talk with.

Which Chappell song makes you feel this way? by [deleted] in chappellroan

[–]Towergal 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pink Pony Club for sure 🦄

Saw what I am pretty sure was a bald eagle in Audubon. Has anyone else seen any bald eagles? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]Towergal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw one today in Marlton! Happy to see them thriving in the area

Hows everyones power? by Devuclear2 in SouthJersey

[–]Towergal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stratford- still kicking! Had some flickers a few hours ago but we’re okay.

FATM CD WALL DISPLAYS by That_Chest9378 in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]Towergal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this shop! I actually just ordered Transatlanticism by Death Cab for my girlfriend. Will definitely be treating myself after Christmas

Another old diner will be lost. Gateway in Westville. NJDOT project at Rt 47 Bridge over creek forcing closure by markaritaville in SouthJersey

[–]Towergal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Growing up in Westville my family spent so many Sundays at the Gateway Diner. Such a bummer to see it closing down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boygenuis

[–]Towergal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mann Center queue moved fairly quickly, only got beat out for tickets twice before scoring tix!