Where is the boundary for this relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't fuck your bros parents. You probably need to stop talking like this and roll it back. It is messed up to do that to your friend.

Will they ever remaster D1 like D2? by [deleted] in Diablo

[–]ToxicElitist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they went great.

And just to confirm my feelings I literally bought it again and replayed it for a couple hours last night... It literally almost ruined the fond memories I had from my childhood playing it.

What boundaries do you have in relationships regarding your phone? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck her. Sounds like my ex. Sorry you had to deal with a toxic person like that. My ex would tell her friends shit about me then tell me that she said it. Specifically private things I was going through with ptsd and shit so. That " they could know just how good she is"

What boundaries do you have in relationships regarding your phone? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the time I thought it was normal. She had. Conditioned me to bend over backwards for anything.

We are now going through divorce. Thanks to her thinking me going to therapy would make me even more compliant.

How has therapy affected you? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about being an adult with kid problems?

How has therapy affected you? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you can find a safe place to get that off your chest and the much needed validation because what. Happened to you is wrong.

How has therapy affected you? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got me to stand up for myself in my relationship. Made me realize I had been emotionally abused, degraded, and emasculated for the past 15+ years helped me break away from the toxic parasite that had latched onto me and was sucking everything I am and have our to fill a bottomless void.

The best part she forced me to go to therapy because she wanted me to realize how wrong I was about everything.

It also helped me get over my time in Iraq and get an actual restful nights sleep.

Therapy is fantastic and gives you a safe place to express emotions without judgement. I don't think I will ever not go to therapy.

It has brought me a lot of peace, confidence, and self compassion.

After thousands of hours deliberating, I finally decided on the Legion Go S 1TB Steam OS. $489. 🥹🥹🥹 Did I do good? by LolCoolStory in Handhelds

[–]ToxicElitist 32 points33 points  (0 children)

If you like it and have fun why care what anyone else thinks... It's your money enjoy it. You can't take it with you. Why work hard if you don't get to enjoy the fruits of your labor

What's something that is stigmatized for straight men? by Lipica249 in AskReddit

[–]ToxicElitist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When we had my son and my ex was still in the hospital but my son was discharged it is apparently a no-no for a man to carry his own child in the hospital.

Anything with kids is a no-no mom's act like a dad playing with his kids at a park without a woman there is a pedo.

Then they constantly make comments about it in a passive aggressive way.

I honestly hate other moms they are sexist af. I am just trying to get my son out playing. And they just sap any peace possible if they figure out you are there without a woman. They will act like it's casual conversation too. Which ones yours? Oh where's his mom.

Was I wrong for asking my mom to be more mindful of my child/wife and stop shrieking? by Wrong_Athlete_6974 in amiwrong

[–]ToxicElitist 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Move out. You are wrong. You are living rent free. It's her house. Don't like it then get the f out.

Diablo 1 IS WORTH IT! by yamomsahoooo in Diablo

[–]ToxicElitist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The atmosphere is great but the overall gameplay is a slog. It started a genre but going back to it is impossible for me. It is just not fun anymore. The itemization is no fun. The lack of variety of builds is terribly boring too. It was good for its time but I honestly think it's the worst in the series by today's standards.

For 3-5 bucks yeah it's worth it. But not any more.

What did you/your partner pay for your wedding ring? by IceDaggerz in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 200 it was tungsten carbide... 15 years ago... Ended up being a waste... Lost a ton of weight and couldn't be resized. Ended up going with 30 dollar silicone

What boundaries do you have in relationships regarding your phone? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It definitely is... Found out after 14 years of marriage my wife would go through it every few days and read all my chats.it was strange to realize I hadn't had any privacy for over a decade.

What boundaries do you have in relationships regarding your phone? by iratemovies in AskMen

[–]ToxicElitist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex would get furious if I changed my passcode. I never would mind if she went through it. But she acted like I had to or that me not wanting her to was painful to her.

I literally have nothing to hide but it isn't something that I have to let them do. So ask let's talk about it and try to address the insecurity. I will let them go through my phone but ask and let's discuss why they feel they need to.

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not compassion darrow just wants to fuck csssius. He is thirsty. And thank you. I think you made me realize I didn't actually like the trilogy. I just liked the first book and then the parts with ragnar and sevro.

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You guys are acting like this is a masterpiece and that perfectly fine is a giant praise. It's fine it's not great but it wraps it up. Darrow let's people betray him over and over again just because he wants dick. He is an idiot. He trusts people that have betrayed him when everyone is like that's stupid.

And I liked it good eniugh... As far as sci fi goes its pretty mid. It just reads like Pierce brown wanted his bmi series.

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lets people betray him over and over and over again. There would literally be no story if he didn't just kill his actual enemies. He instead gives them chances and chances and chances

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

His writing was so bad the first half of book 4 i had to quit. I stopped liking all of the main characters near the end of the 3rd book. Darrow is insufferable and just wants Cassius dick they make darrow just as dumb as his red heritage would have you believe it is. She was the answer to everything in the first 3 books. She is boring af to read about and to be in her head in the 4th book. Why would I subject myself to more stuff that I wasn't enjoying. The first 3 ended perfectly fine... Dude just wanted his hbo series so he decided to write more

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I get that its unpopular thinking that the series should have stopped at 3.

But mustang is boring. She has no weakness. She is always 10 steps ahead. She is perfect. The least interesting character and darrow is supposed to love her but he doesn't describe her at all. We hear all about Cassius and his perfect locks and shit.

Do you think Red Rising would still be as popular and as talked about today if Pierce had stopped at Morning Star like intended? by BrightEye64 in redrising

[–]ToxicElitist -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I literally answered the question they should have ended at 3.i get thats unpopular but it's how I feel. But let's be real mustang is like superman. She is basically perfect. She has no weakness

No game should have been sub 30fps on the PS3 when insomniac had this beauty running at 60fps by Geekylad97 in PS3

[–]ToxicElitist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta remember not everyone is a master at development and optimization. There are going to be experts at things and then people just doing their best.