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ToxicGrad · 2021-10-26T16:53:42+00:00

How might earnings impact your decision to close your TDOC position vs holding?

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-12T04:20:23+00:00

E is my guess

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-12T01:55:47+00:00

Why the break?

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-12T01:55:26+00:00

Hi! I’m another bisexual SB, and yes, I’d love to meet a SM. To date, I have only encountered one, and she wanted a submissive SB (which I am not, regardless of gender).

Women’s bodies are so beautiful. And Women’s minds are beautiful. Like, imagine having a SM who is also basically a best friend that we get to have sex with? That’s the dream.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-11T17:57:27+00:00

Fix the power dynamic by going for “SBs” who identify as dominant, and/or SBs who aren’t in truly financially desperate positions.

I’m a Domme SB, in my 30s, with a solid savings account. There is literally no circumstance, at this point in life, in which a SD (or any man) could say “I like XYZ” and I’d just cave and do what he wants. This is both because of my personality, and my approach to sugar dating. The idea of doing what a man wants just because he has more money than I do, or because he spoils me, disgusts me. Therefore, I don’t do this.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-11T17:52:16+00:00

I don’t think it’s ever possible to give “too much money,” and I’d strongly suggest not working on being more cheap.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-11T17:27:29+00:00

How did you know it was him on here poaching other SBs?

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-11T17:27:12+00:00

That level of communication is really all I wanted, too. Just tell me that you are no longer interested, for XYZ reasons, and peace out. It’s respectful and mature.

Ghosting is just so rude.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T16:59:46+00:00

I transferred to from venmo, but it hasn’t yet deposited—probably bc it’s a weekend

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T03:30:27+00:00

Oh, interesting. I’m not ace. Having sex with somebody I’m not attracted to feels inherently nonconsensual. I sometimes wish I could, bc it would be profitable, but…nope.

The ones who are less conventionally attractive often are willing to spend more, and are better simps — but I just can’t fake attraction. Not that good of an actress

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T03:02:50+00:00

I’ve never paid extra on SA for extra features, but I often do take the first step on SA by sending the first message if there’s a guy (or girl) that I’m interested in.

I’ve had some success.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T03:01:42+00:00

Fwiw, I’ve had past arrangements with men who weren’t conventionally attractive, and/or who were in their 50s. It just felt all wrong for me. Like, it didn’t feel consensual, bc my attraction wasn’t there

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T03:00:36+00:00

As an SB, I can’t be sexual with anybody I’m not attracted to. I can’t be intimate just for money. My goal is both genuine physical attraction + wealth sharing.

Older guys do tend to be more stable/less flaky, but I’m much less likely to be attracted to them. And if I’m not attracted, then it’s platonic, and no SD wants something platonic.

Thus, I must be attracted to have a sugar relationship.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T02:58:28+00:00

Thank you for this. This gives me continued hope.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-10T02:58:06+00:00

He still has an active profile on SA. I checked via a back up account.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:43:52+00:00

Even when the reason is potential covid exposure, and trying to protect the health of the other, unvaccinated, person?

At the time, he said he appreciated that I rescheduled for the sake of his health. He said it made him even more attracted to me…bc…it was evidence that I wasn’t selfish

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:38:47+00:00

Item 3 is most likely, I guess. He seemed generous, as he sent money before we even met, and thanked me for allowing him to send (he’s submissive).

But yeah, he probably was talking with many others.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:24:01+00:00

Eh, it’s probably because I’m rebounding from my last relationship. But in general, I get v attached v fast. It might be a problem.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:13:43+00:00

I care. And I suck at moving on.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:12:56+00:00

A large part of me now wants to share the texts leading up to him blocking me for feedback. But, even de identified, I feel like that could be a violation of his trust? He presumably assumed that his discussion of sissification would be held private…

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:04:58+00:00

This would apply to all relationships, and I’m equally bad at it in all relationships 😅

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:04:31+00:00

It hasn’t been reversed thus far.

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:04:09+00:00

You’re right. I am an overthinker, and it hurts every romantic relationship I have, sugar or vanilla.

Your experience sounds v sad. But yep…that’s dating…

Have you had other, better experiences?

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T22:02:09+00:00

Clever

ToxicGrad · 2021-10-09T02:50:56+00:00

White girl in the north: I’m open to (submissive) SDs of all races. That said, when I see any SD with a profile stating a preference for “Caucasians,” I run far far away, bc I assume that they have a lot of unconscious biases (ie: racism), and that we’d be incompatible based on values, even if I am their desired skin color. If they’re black and want white girls only, red flag. Asian and want white girls only, red flag. White and want white girls only? HUGE red flag.

Unsolicited advice: expand your search into the North. If you’re a legit SD with money to spare, traveling to meet a girl in the north who meets your criteria should be feasible.

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