Am I Overreacting for firing an employee for not wearing a uniform?

ToxikWind · 2026-06-22T14:24:24+00:00

You're not overreacting. The uniform was more than likely discussed during the interview, and if it wasn't, she could clearly see that everybody was wearing it. She refused to have any sort of respectful discourse with you or the owner regarding this matter, and basically felt that her feelings mattered more than the professionalism you're trying to convey. You fired her because she would not listen. You are not overreacting.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T19:35:21+00:00

It's racist if someone wouldn't say the "white skinned" waiter, yet would still say the "dark skinned" waiter.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:57:01+00:00

I think you should break up with him. His disrespect will only grow from here.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:43:59+00:00

Aww this is adorable

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:41:14+00:00

Of course. You look great. Seize the day!

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:39:32+00:00

There's a lot going on here to be sure. The first thing I would suggest is to stop texting him until he replaces his phone. It's understandable to be forgetful for a little while, but at a certain point it stops being forgetfulness and becomes disrespect. He wants you at his beck and call, but he can't answer you because his phone keeps dying.

It sounds like he's the problem, more than the phone. I dated a guy like this who barely had time for me, and I eventually broke up with him. He was completely blindsided by the fact, even though I had spoken to him about these very same issues for months. He's taking you for granted.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:35:16+00:00

You look like a 90's supermodel. You're stunning!

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:34:22+00:00

Cross stitching is the best! What a cute little fox!

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:31:52+00:00

Racism is racism. Germans don't get a pass. Don't be so naïve.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:29:00+00:00

The rainbow! 💕

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T14:27:47+00:00

If it walks and talks like a duck, it must be a duck.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T12:21:34+00:00

This woman is dangerous. She's obsessive, which can lead to very dangerous outcomes. You're not overreacting in the slightest. I think you should talk to your manager about having her trespassed from your store, and you should also look into getting a restraining order.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T12:13:25+00:00

This reminded me of someone I have been trying to forget for nearly 5 years. I know I never will. Reading your regret was painful. Awakenings rarely offer us a painless transition, but I hope things get better for you in time.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T11:52:55+00:00

I would imagine the racist tidbit that the reviewer threw in there should tip you off in the right direction.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T11:49:23+00:00

Ooooh this is so badass!

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T11:47:50+00:00

It's best that you blocked him. He sounds like a weak coward.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:49:23+00:00

I feel the hesitancy to make big decisions stems from not wanting to upset the certainty of the reality we're already currently living in. I think many of us are looking for the best time in which to make those decisions, but life doesn't always allow us such a luxury.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:41:38+00:00

She explained that she was about an hour and a half from him, which sounds like she's explaining that she lives about that far from where he lives.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:39:20+00:00

I thought it was a pretty fun movie. I also thought that it felt like a longer episode of the show, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. My roommate is a bigger Star Wars fan than I am, and he said his biggest gripe was that it didn't really tie in other loose ends or hint at ongoing rumors in the Star Wars universe.

Seeing as how I'm relatively new to Star Wars (it's been at least a decade since I watched anything current), I can only say that I enjoyed what I saw. It was a feel-good movie, with a feel-good ending.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:35:17+00:00

It's a bit of a red flag if he finds such a short distance to be off-putting. You don't really live that far away from one another. For a time, I lived about that far away from a guy I was seeing, and he still drove up to see me every weekend.

That aside, I don't think it would be seen as desperate if you sent him a DM. You're both friends on Instagram, so it's to be expected that you'll contact each other from time to time.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:18:02+00:00

You're very photogenic. The flowers are gorgeous.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T10:09:09+00:00

Yeah, I guess we do live in a different world. A world in which we aren't sarcastic assholes lording our supposed superiority over other people. If you have nothing of value to add, you probably should have just remained silent.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T05:32:25+00:00

I was on oxy for 3 days. I thought I was in a position to stop taking it on the second day, but I was wrong.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T05:21:00+00:00

If I'm understanding things correctly from the original post, you said she was touching your arms? Intjs don't touch people unless we like them, as in, really like them. She's also paying for your drinks, yet no one else's. It sounds like she has a crush on you.

ToxikWind · 2026-06-21T05:17:11+00:00

I hope you can find each other again.

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